Marriage is the chaos of two separate worlds mixing with the sound of a whistle. Moreover, this interference would be unplanned. Many factors outside of you that you would never even think of have now become a part of your life. Sometimes it is the mother-in-law, sometimes it is the brother, sometimes it is food preferences, sometimes it is the level of sociability, sometimes it is cleaning habits. If we told you that you married a box and that every day something new would come out that does not suit you, like a matryoshka, you would be afraid of that box you fell in love with, right?
However, not being afraid, you will have the opportunity to test how much it is in your life until then. Activating your "adaptability" that you don't have is often the most elegant solution. On the other hand, adaptability is not something you can gain with a magic wand; as a couple, you can increase your periphery and gain a structure that will fully include the other, step by step, through the psychotherapy process. It will be meaningful for the other party and for you, and a marriage artistry will begin in which even the most contrasting colors can become exquisite portraits. In fact, this is a unique opportunity to take your personality and adaptability to life to the next level. Marriage improves your adaptability, and your adaptability professionalizes your way of dealing with life. As long as adaptation problems do not turn into chronic diseases, grow secretly under the soil of your marriage, and become a wild tree in the middle of your garden years later that you are crushed under without realizing where it came from.
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