When it comes to sexuality, it is not just sexual intercourse; emotional, tactile, communicative, sharing, love and intimacy come to mind. Sexual intercourse should be experienced with the will and desire of both people, without coercion. Healthy sexual intercourse is a source of pleasure that can be experienced freely, bring people closer, make them feel happy, and create physical and spiritual integrity. Sexuality varies depending on the cultural structure of the society in which people live, their physical appearance, beliefs, personality traits and spiritual states. However, a healthy sexual relationship is an intimacy that is experienced without forcing, that is made special for them, that makes it essential to give and receive pleasure according to their preferences, according to their likes and dislikes, that makes them feel happy in the end, and that has good chemistry. While sexual identity is acquired at a very young age, sexual knowledge is learned very late and through misconceptions that are known as true.
The individual of a society that is shamed, prohibited, not talked about and intimidated at a very young age is subjected to a relationship in the form of sexual coercion instead of sexual pleasure. While sexual intercourse can be the area where people are punished for the problems they experience in their relationships, sexual intercourse is also the area where their problems are solved and forgiven. Sexuality with so many sensitivity and variables is open to all kinds of handicaps. In society, sexual intercourse is negatively affected by mental problems rather than physical diseases. On the contrary, when sexual problems occur alone, they can cause psychological problems and deteriorate interpersonal relationships. Communication during sexual intercourse is shaped on the basis of physical, spiritual and verbal communication.
The absence of one of these may cause the others to be negatively affected. Just as self-expression is important in social communication, the communication language of sexual intercourse is also important. Sexual problems cause the same problems in men and women for different reasons. These are sexual reluctance, sexual arousal and orgasm problems. If we exclude anatomical and physical problems, psychological reasons affect it greatly. Situations that disrupt sexual functionality; the upbringing of women and men according to their society, traditional sexual role and identity, unhealthy relationship with parents, rigid religious and moral beliefs, an oppressive authoritarian family structure, personality problems, sexual identity and orientation. Psychological problems include sexual harassment and trauma, sexual phobia and avoidance, relationship conflicts and loss of interest in the partner, performance anxiety, sexual disgust, and psychiatric problems. In sexual therapy, the person's story about sexuality, starting with their first encounter, should be carefully evaluated in all its details. Because wherever the link in the chain is broken, it may cause the problem to grow even more as it will affect the entire sexual relationship. Sometimes it can be very far for a person to recognize his own sexuality. As a result, he may not be able to express what he and the other person want and how it should be. In such a case, even proper sexual counseling will solve the problem. However, if the problem is the negative experiences in the memories, individual therapy may also be needed to resolve this. It is not always necessary to have sexual intercourse and orgasm to achieve sexual satisfaction. But it would not be right to ignore these problems. Women's preparation for sexual intercourse differs from men in that they take more care and the emotional aspect is more prominent. In men, performance anxiety can be overcome more easily by being close to the woman and trying to understand her anxiety. A relationship devoid of sexual fantasy may lose its appeal after a while. Preparing the bodies to prepare the conditions for sexual intimacy and focusing on sexual intercourse will bring pleasure and satisfaction. Endless sexual myths and beliefs can be overcome through mutual communication by obtaining accurate sexual information.
Gaining sexual experience will always keep the relationship dynamic with a more effective sexual intercourse with the same partner. In sexual therapy, sexual frigidity, reluctance and sexual arousal in men and women. Apart from orgasm problems, vaginismus, sexual disgust and painful sexual intercourse are observed in women, and erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and delayed ejaculation are observed in men.
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