Vaginismus is a common sexual intercourse problem in all layers of society. In this section, people with vaginismus risk factors are discussed. As a matter of fact, vaginismus patients have many common aspects and personality structures that are similar to each other.
Vaginismus patients have a common personality structure and character aspects that are very similar to each other. For this reason, patients sometimes 'see themselves as if they came from the same factory' and when they meet, they become very good friends.
According to our observations in our institution, which has been providing services on vaginismus treatments since 2003, vaginismus patients are very Similar common aspects are discussed in this section. Based on these common aspects, vaginismus risk factors have been revealed.
PERSONS WITH VAGINISMUS RISK FACTORS
1-) Personality structure and common features:
Girls who do not want to grow up, have a childish personality, and are dependent on their parents are at risk of vaginismus in later ages.
Saying "My dear is sweet" Women who think and have different fears (such as fear of needles, blood, dentists, cats, dogs, insects, heights)
Those who are raised as the good girls of the family ('Good girl syndrome')
Those who were raised away from sexuality ('Tomboy model')
Those who were extremely influenced by the events they experienced. For example, those who experience the effects of a movie scene or a tragic event for a long time.
Those who have little sexual knowledge and experience.
Those who have fears due to their partner's lack of sexual experience (“What about my partner? "Those who think that if someone harms them during intercourse, or makes a wrong move during intercourse"
Those who marry their spouse in a troubled and problematic manner
Those who do not feel love or trust towards their spouses
>Those who have been exposed to sexual trauma such as harassment and rape in the past
Girls who were raised with strict religious, moral and traditional rules are at risk of vaginismus.
Vaginismus is a problem that concerns every segment of society. However, it is an interesting finding that 80% of the patients treated in our institution are at least high school graduates.
Again, according to our own studies, vaginismus in rural areas is generally seen as a result of lack of knowledge and the problem can be solved more quickly with cognitive therapies.
Good girl. What is the syndrome?
Vaginismus, sexual reluctance, sexual disgust and inability to orgasm frequently occur in later ages in "good girls" who were raised by their parents without giving them any sexual information and with messages about ignoring or denigrating sexuality. This problem, which is very common in Turkish society and develops in girls who are raised by their environment and families in this way, is called "being a good girl syndrome." It is accepted as a duty to satisfy. According to our observations from thousands of patients as an institution, good girls are perfectionists, have a lot of internal discipline and a meticulous nature. Being a good girl syndrome is among the risk factors for vaginismus.
2) Family structure:
Family structure is also important in terms of risk factors for vaginismus:
Those whose own families are extremely protective and protective
Those whose parents are dominant
Those whose parents are both oppressive and conservative
Those who were raised by other members of the family instead of their mother and father (especially those who experienced pressure from their grandparents) are in the risk group for vaginismus.
3) Fears of pregnancy:
Traditional or Religiously educated people or women who are single but are trying sexual intercourse with their boyfriend/fiancé may face the problem of vaginismus due to their fear of getting pregnant and subsequently having an abortion.
4 ) Traditional and / or religious pressures:
In traditional environments where sexual views are extremely strict and rule-abiding, and especially those who received strict religious education in childhood, they are also among the risk factors for vaginismus in their later ages.
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According to our statistical research, Kony is one of the cities where patients from outside the city apply to us. a, Eskişehir, Samsun, Istanbul, Bursa, Izmir, Adana, K. Maraş and Antakya.
It is possible to reduce the risk of vaginismus!
The risk of vaginismus The most important factor in reducing it is the provision of sexual education by the family and school from a very early age. Because people with lack of knowledge and misinformation will be at the greatest risk of vaginismus and other sexual problems in the coming years.
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