The institution of marriage, like every institution, is affected by situations such as stress, uncertainty, external interventions, role confusion, and wrong choices. The negativities brought from the past and the stresses of the present begin to put a strain on the marriage. Different cultural backgrounds, sexual problems, difficulties in "distance adjustment", psychiatric problems, stresses of daily life (financial, work, etc.) are the main factors that put a strain on a traumatic past marriage.
***After a while, the real reason for separation and arguments is The reasons are forgotten and the disrespect, violence, insults, and hitting below the belt during the discussions begin to become the source of the next argument. The involvement of families makes the situation even more negative.
When couples come to therapy, they usually wait for a very long time and one of the partners often experiences an emotional breakup. In late cases, the success rate decreases and past discussion and reluctance to therapy become a source of resistance. The concept of "Momentum" refers to following certain rules and taking precautions from the very beginning, instead of trying to get out of marriage after falling 100 meters into the abyss.
**If you ask me, every individual should get support and be informed about these issues while they are still single, about 50 minutes long With one session, it is possible to predict how the role models watched in the first 6 years will reflect on future marriage. It is possible to prevent problems and divorces before the end of respect and love, if issues such as correct communication, recognition of different cultural backgrounds, and compromise culture are addressed in a few sessions in the first years of marriage.
The result is that if there is a relationship, there is a problem, almost none of us know the relationship We do not receive adequate training in communication and communication, and we are often late for marriage therapy. I must emphasize that the sooner we get consultation on these issues, the more useful it will be.
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