Nowadays, people can end many relationships suddenly or end them and start again and come back to the same point. Of course, there are those who have long and peaceful relationships. However, especially in emotional relationships, one of the important factors that determines the duration of a husband-wife relationship or a lover relationship is undoubtedly the quality of the relationships experienced. Under this concept of quality, there can be many topics whose importance varies from person to person. The concepts of dependent relationship and dependent relationship have a great impact on the points where emotional relationships often end or relationships become stuck and exhausted. Because the kind of relationship you will have and maintain depends on which side of these two concepts you are on and which one you nurture. Generally, couples who offer accusatory solutions to relationship problems, such as the other party not changing, creating problems, or being right, cannot get out of the situation. However, first of all, you need to know where you stand in a healthy relationship. This is where the Dependent relationship and Dependent relationship types come into play.
If you give up your own pleasures in order to do the actions that make your partner happy, if you focus on the other party that is against your ideas, actions, entertainment, in short, if you put the other person in the foreground and give the stage, the role, the direction to your partner, and you are just watching the game under all circumstances. and if you are the applauding audience, we can talk about the dependent relationship, which is the type of relationship between you. Those in addictive relationships disregard themselves under the motto of "adapting" rather than realizing and expressing their own thoughts, feelings and behaviors. While the person performs every action, will the other party like it? This is better for my partner, if I don't do it this way, he may get angry, there may be problems if he doesn't get what he wants, if he doesn't like it, he removes himself, his values, his thoughts from the stage, as if he wants what he wants, and just becomes an unconditional spectator. The producer, director and actor of the play become the opposing party. They also feel obliged to attend every play as a spectator, meaning they do everything together, they have no other life. Therefore, the person begins to experience a relationship that is dissatisfied and unable to break away from the other. Adaptability has absolutely nothing to do with this form. addict Those in bad relationships complain about their relationships and cannot change or end them. Over time, these people may develop an internal grudge against the other party. Because they see personal worthlessness under a high dose of conformity that prevents them from constantly being themselves. They experience compliance dose poisoning. They express this situation to the other party loudly or silently over the years with regretful thoughts such as, "I couldn't do it because of you, you prevented me, this happened because of you."
In committed relationships, things are different. There is an existing bond, a partnership, between the couples. They share a life. Their stories consist of a two-man director, they both write and act together. However, there are two different actors in the roles of the play. They create a play by sharing their own ideas, tastes, areas, values, and emotions in different roles on the same stage. The stage is a common bond, but there is no role playing. Those in committed relationships depend on each other when making decisions and decisions in their shared lives, but they do not step on each other's lines. They consider and involve the other party, but they also experience the solution process by revealing their own beliefs and not ignoring them. Neither side's own tastes, colours, interests or happiness will be violated for the sake of the other. On the contrary, they enjoy finding common ground. But this does not mean that they do everything and live together. They certainly have their own time and their own methods of how they fill that time. In their separate lives in this area, they do not neglect their sociability, hobbies and spending time alone. They definitely give as much space in their lives as is sufficient or as much as they can manage. However, they adjust the dosage according to themselves without skipping these. In a sense, they are two people singing a song as a duet, and the song has both parts sung alone and parts sung together. As a result, these kinds of songs become the most listened to and timeless songs…
Just as dependent and dependent relationship types directly affect the quality of the relationship, analyzing where the person is located is also a repairer of the relationship in order to raise awareness. Therefore, the type of bond in relationships is an issue that requires extreme attention. The repair process for your relationship To enter the market, action must be taken without waiting for the ties to be broken. In order for all relationships to share a better game on the stage, both parties need to work professionally with family and couple therapy, which supports the process of reviewing the relationship.
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