Family is the most basic institutional structure that makes people, society and the state strong and peaceful. As the saying goes, "A happy person, even if he is a king, is the one who is happy at home", family is the home of peace that we can call our paradise on earth. However, unfortunately, this has not been the case for all people and their families. According to the data of the Turkish Statistical Institute, the divorce rate, domestic violence and unwanted events resulting from violent disagreements have become quite common.
Is it possible for individuals who cannot communicate healthily and cannot protect their personality and mental health to be peaceful and spread peace in their homes? Elements such as media, cultural corruption, and the dominance of material values have begun to destroy spiritual values such as sharing, solidarity, sacrifice and respect, but the number of rich and unhappy people has increased. Nowadays, people perceive the saying "one rug is enough" in a different sense. The pleasure of a cup of coffee no longer lasts even an hour.
When we look within ourselves, it is possible to come across emotional and behavioral disorders such as depression, extreme anger and aggression, and introversion in every family. Who doesn't want to have a peaceful, healthy and joyful family life? Maybe this is an issue that many of us have trouble with. However, we do not know how to solve the problems we experience. Even if we can diagnose the problems correctly, we cannot produce techniques for the solution or find the necessary support from our family.
Communication is an indispensable element in a family. If family members do not understand each other, if there is no respect and sacrifice in the family, if everyone only sees themselves as right and criticizes the other person in an aggressive manner, can happiness be expected in that family? In this case, we must immediately acquire these skills and create values that will make our family strong and bring peace. If we cannot be effective in this regard or are insufficient, we must be able to put an end to the problems we experience within the family by getting help from a psychological counselor. Even a family cannot receive psychological support by meeting with a psychological counselor at certain times. Although it is a wrong attitude to see getting specialist help as a source of shame, on the contrary, we should be able to meet with a mental health specialist just as we can see an internal medicine specialist. With the developing culture, "psi Misconceptions such as "only crazy people go to psychological counseling" have also been erased.
Some people do not care about communication problems within the family, as if they have made unhappiness a habit, and even believe that they can never be solved. This belief actually causes the problem to become gangrene. This attitude is unwise. Because we, who have the chance to live only once in this world, definitely deserve to live healthy lives and be happy. We can achieve this under any conditions. As long as we believe in this and have the courage to change to better ourselves. Wishing you to experience happiness to the fullest in your family paradise and the happiness that increases as you share...
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