Nowadays, due to the rapid development of technology, the internet has become almost indispensable in our daily lives.
With various technological devices, we now have the opportunity to be in constant communication with the click of a button, wherever we are, both through the internet and video chat.
In addition to these conveniences provided by technology, such as virtual relationships and virtual sex. It also brought its terminologies into our lives.
In such a dynamic and fast life cycle, unfortunately, we started to feel lonely, afraid to communicate with people in real life, and insecure
. It has become easier to access virtual relationships, virtual sex and pornography on the internet from where we sit, without having to experience all these fears and without making any effort.
This convenience can now become an addiction and almost replace a real relationship
. This is exactly where the problem begins.
Most people have watched erotic, sex and pornographic images at some point in their lives.
They have been tested both to improve their sexual literature and to see their sexual arousal.
From time to time, it is also possible for couples to watch erotic movies with their spouses, with their free will.
In fact, some visuals are recommended for therapeutic purposes in some couples who have sexual adjustment problems.
“My wife. We have started to hear these words very frequently now: "He locks himself in a room, spends hours in front of the computer and says he doesn't want to be disturbed." In fact, people who know that their spouse is watching porn and masturbating, but pretend not to know, say that they do not know what to do or how to behave. A woman who knows her husband's situation feels deeply disappointed at first. She feels herself and her feminine pride being humiliated. Unfortunately, this
situation is too common to be underestimated. Mostly men's addiction to masturbation and pornography begins before marriage. Although the man actually thinks that this situation will end with marriage
it usually continues after marriage. Afterwards, this situation is reflected in his relationship, his communication with his wife decreases, the number of sexual intercourses and quality of life decrease. He/she may begin to decrease in his/her relationship or may want very different relationship experiences from his/her partner.
Therefore, their marriage suffers. So, what should be done in such a situation, how to overcome it
First of all, this situation should be shared without being offensive or humiliating the spouse.
In mutual sexual relations, expectations and fantasies should be expressed without shame and hesitation
. More time should be spent, it is necessary to find common shares to keep the relationship alive
. If success is not achieved despite all these, getting professional help is a rational solution
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