My child is similar to my mother, the relationship I have with my child is the same as the relationship I have with my mother!
If you say that my child is similar to my mother or my father, why did I run away from my mother, happened to my child, the relationship I established with my child is the same as the relationship I established with my mother, read this article.
/> Look how Talat Parman* explains the transfer of intergenerational communication to the next generation, taking Ackerman as a reference: He claims that the relationship he has with the parents is a mirror image. Parents act with the argument that they do not want to repeat the mistakes of their own parents, but this effort results in the children becoming like grandparents. Since the parents are at the peak of their power, they become the target of both their parents and the children. This situation causes the children to become the target of their own parents. It may occur as attracting or fighting the attention of the adult children of their parents and grandparents. That's why grandfathers, grandmothers and grandchildren sometimes become allies and sometimes rivals."
In other words, Talat Parman says, "one cannot escape from the past." Whatever he escaped from his parents in the past comes to life in his children. Thus, while raising his children, one grows with them. In their presence, he has to open the doors he closed in his heart again. By realizing and accepting everything that he does not accept within himself with them... A person grows in the presence of his children and his children...
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