Information about sexuality that is false, does not reflect the truth, is not scientifically supported, has spread from word of mouth for years, is accepted by everyone, and that we think is true and allow it to affect our lives is called 'Sexual Myth'. These myths turn into legends over time and become accepted without question.
Do men know all the tricks of sexuality?
Sexuality is a process in which men and women live together and enjoy mutual pleasure. While the culture we live in imposes responsibilities regarding sexuality on men, it causes men to experience performance anxiety. While it imposes duties and responsibilities on women, it takes away women's sexual rights. The man thinks that he must remain hard during sexual intercourse and that he must be successful, and he begins to experience performance problems. Women, on the other hand, do not take pleasure from sexuality, they only fulfill their duties. Couples who do not get pleasure, do not give pleasure, and focus on the result with duty responsibility have unhealthy, unhappy and unsatisfying sexual lives.
Women's sexual desire is low.
Women are raised with negative information about sexuality; 'Sexuality is not your right' 'Sexuality is a duty' 'Sexual intercourse is painful, it causes pain, it hurts'. A girl raised in this way moves away from sexuality over time. When he reaches adolescence, he represses his sexuality and continues to listen to stories that support his misinformation. In her adult sexual life, a woman does not even have an idea about her own sexuality because she is unaware that she has such a right. What she knows is that sexuality is painful. She continues to suppress her suppressed sexual desire for fear of suffering. However, both men and women have sexual desires, and when raised in a healthy way, women can also express their sexual desires.
Masturbation is dirty and harmful.
Masturbating makes a person feel guilty. Masturbation, which is forbidden and known as a sin, is done out of fear of being caught. A feeling of dirtiness is added to the feeling of guilt. Many people believe that masturbation is harmful, that it damages some organs and causes problems such as blindness and lack of sexual desire. On the contrary, when masturbation is not done out of fear of being caught, there will be no It does not cause sexual function problems. It does not harm the organs, it is not a shameful sin, it is not habit-forming, it does not cause emotional or physical problems, on the contrary, it is used as a technique in sexual therapies. Masturbation is a matter of choice and can be done at any age. Feelings of shame, guilt and sinfulness are unnecessary.
The hymen can be disrupted by masturbation.
Masturbation is not harmful as long as it is not overdone and preferred to sexual intercourse. Masturbation by stimulating the external sexual organs and clitoris without inserting anything into the vagina does not damage the hymen.
Masturbation reduces sexual desire and causes diseases.
Information that masturbation reduces sexual power and desire is wrong. What is harmful is not masturbation, but the negative beliefs that accompany it, such as guilt, sinfulness and shame. Masturbation is an indication that a person is at peace with his own sexuality. If masturbation is done correctly, it contributes positively to a person's sexuality. However, when it is done out of fear of being caught, it can cause premature ejaculation and sexual reluctance problems in men, along with the feelings of guilt that follow. Women recognize their sexuality through masturbation and contribute to their sexuality in married life. Masturbation does not cause acne, does not cause blindness, does not cause infertility, does not disrupt the menstrual cycle, does not cause premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, does not cause curvature in the penis, does not cause sin.
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