What is orgasm?
Orgasm is defined as the process that manifests itself with rhythmic contractions of the uterus and vagina after the sexual intercourse reaches its climax. During this period, sexual pleasure is experienced in its most intense and enjoyable form. After pleasure, 'sexual satisfaction' occurs. Having an orgasm causes men and women to get closer to each other.
What do women feel during orgasm?
The feeling of orgasm is described in different ways in women. Some women feel like they are floating off the ground, some feel like electricity is passing through their entire body. Having an orgasm increases a woman's self-confidence, makes her feel sufficient, makes her happier in her social relationships, and increases her performance in working life.
In fact, our brain is our largest and most important sexual organ, and a woman's She can experience orgasm without any sexual intercourse, only with her own erotic thoughts or by stimulating her clitoris. In other words, young virgin girls, including vaginismus patients, can orgasm with clitoral stimulation by hand or by rubbing, without having a full sexual intercourse.
What is anorgasmia? (Problem of not being able to orgasm)
Anorgasmia is the state of 'not being able to have an orgasm'. Many anorgasmic women have the problem of "not being able to orgasm" despite being sexually aroused, and this problem may cause some internal distress in women. Feeling bad about oneself, decreased self-confidence and depression are the most common accompanying complaints.
Women who cannot orgasm feel distant from their partners. Over time, the problem of sexual reluctance may also arise. They may not feel like women. They may make their relationship a mission just to keep their partner happy; This increases their unhappiness in general.
On the other hand, negative effects are observed in social relations and even in business life. There is a visible decrease in productivity in workplaces due to lack of concentration.
Frequency of Orgasm Problems
A study on the frequency of sexual dysfunctions in normal couples. In addition, 63% of women reported difficulty in reaching orgasm, 47% reported inability to relax, and 35% reported lack of interest in sexuality. Difficulty with sexual arousal in women is the dysfunction most closely associated with sexual dissatisfaction.
A study conducted among middle-class couples found that 40% of women had sexual desire problems or difficulty with orgasm. Moreover, 83% of women and men described their marriages as happy or very happy, and the majority of couples did not express their current sexual dissatisfaction as a complaint about their marriage. The patient is faced with the problem of not being able to orgasm (coital anorgasmia). While some do not see this situation as a problem, some think that their lives are affected negatively.
Reasons for Not Having Orgasm in Women
The most common reasons for anorgasmia are psychological concerns, and among them There is a "fear of losing self-control". Other psychological factors include experienced traumas, a problematic childhood, lack of a regular and healthy family life, oppressive parents, poor partner/marriage relationship, problematic, traumatic sexual experiences during the transition to adolescence, and sexual identity conflicts.
Less than 5% of orgasm disorders have an underlying organic cause. The most common reasons are; diabetes, chronic alcoholism, some neurological disorders and some drug use.
CLASSIFICATION OF ORGASMIC DISORDERS
Random anorgasmia: Periodically It is the inability to experience orgasm.
Coital anorgasmia: It is the problem of not being able to orgasm during sexual intercourse, although you can orgasm manually (masturbation) or by rubbing. Another synonymous term is "clitoral orgasm", that is, orgasm occurs only by external stimulation of the clitoris.
Early orgasm: It is the loss of sexual pleasure due to orgasm occurring in the early period.
Hypersexuality: It is a sexual pathology that can be seen in men and women. As a result of excessive sexual desire in women Having sexual intercourse 7 or more times a week is defined as 'Nymphomania'.
While some women have never experienced orgasm in their lives, some face the problem of anorgasmia even though they have experienced it in the past.
FREQUENTLY QUESTIONS ABOUT ORGASMS
What is the function of orgasm?
The main function of orgasm is for women. and ensuring the integrity established during the union of the men's bodies in a spiritual sense. In other words, it means experiencing pleasure and enjoyment at its peak.
How do women orgasm?
Women can achieve orgasm by touching themselves, rubbing, inserting a foreign object into the vagina, or with their partners during intercourse.
Is it necessary to have an orgasm for pregnancy to occur?
Although scientifically orgasm is not necessary for pregnancy to occur, studies conducted in recent years have shown that during sexual intercourse When the sperms thrown into the vagina when the man ejaculates reach the fallopian tubes, a "vacuum effect" occurs on the sperm as the woman's uterus contracts as a result of her orgasm, thus increasing the possibility of pregnancy.
“Woman's ejaculation Is there such a thing as "?
During orgasm, the hole (urethra) through which the woman urinates may open, along with rhythmic contractions in the vagina, uterus and anus.
The urethra may open. It may open and urine may come out as a result of these rhythmic contractions. This situation is described by some authors as “female ejaculation or woman's coming”.
Can vaginismus patients have an orgasm by being stimulated?
Yes. Even if vaginismus patients do not have sexual penetration (intercourse), they can achieve orgasm through friction with their sexual partners or by manually stimulating the clitoris (masturbation).
Very very rarely, a woman with vaginismus can achieve orgasm. Sexual reluctance may also be observed. In general, there is no sexual reluctance in vaginismus, but as the frequency of intercourse attempts decreases over time, lack of wetness (dryness) and reluctance in the vagina may develop.
Can a woman be taught to orgasm?
Yes. With the applied sexual therapies, a woman can be taught to enjoy sexual intercourse more, increase sexual satisfaction and have an orgasm. Sexuality is a function that can be learned and improved.
Teaching a person to orgasm is like teaching a person not to leak urine, for example, which is possible by developing certain habits.
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Anorgasmia Treatments by Us
Cognitive behavioral sexual therapies are used during anorgasmia treatments. Cognitive therapy includes providing information about sexuality, and behavioral sexual therapies include some exercises. In addition to these treatments, hypnotherapy can also accelerate the treatment process. When necessary, general psychotherapies, treatments for male partners and couple therapies can be added to sexual treatments.
Anorgasmia treatments last between 6 and 15 sessions on average, depending on the level of the problem from person to person. Session lengths are 40 minutes on average.
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