1+1=2 - Your mother, who gave birth to you from your first contact and genetic heirs; If he is an adult/competent individual physically, spiritually and sociologically enough to be "one", this is a sign that he had a lucky start at the moment of birth, at the beginning of life. The individual who is "one" also makes you "one" and this is how reproduction takes place. Without sinking to the bottom, without descending to flawed values. This is what is healthy. As a separate individual physically and spiritually, a strong personality structure in society is formed. The process results in two people, mother and daughter or mother and son. As a mother accompanies the development of more than one individual, the total number increases. Like a mother candle that lights other candles with its fire, souls revive souls while no one diminishes anyone else.
1+1=1 - If you are a soul born to a mother who has not yet developed physically, spiritually and socially, and has not yet become an individual, An important conflict will be waiting for you. This is a very loaded situation in many ways. It is very painful. A mother who has not been able to become "one" needs to live and feel her power and existence by bringing a living being into the world. She invests in the newborn with the hope of meeting the desires of being whole. They have expectations from him. Whatever he lacks, his child will compensate for it. In other words, Can, who was newly born, is not a separate individual; The mother is limited to various functions such as complement, desire fulfiller, extension, warrior, sacrificer, slave and robot. Thus, he can never begin to live as a separate individual throughout his life; He always remains in this captivity, under control and protection. He struggles desperately in a very painful, torturous, conflicting life. It can never be 1+1=2. There is only one "one" in the intertwined relationship they have established with the mother, who is strengthened by herself and feels that she exists.
Liberation from this pathological state of swallowing, destroying and condemning can be achieved by the contact of another healthy person, this arithmetic. is broken down and another equation is established. When the newly developing individual cannot find a parent strong enough to see, understand, mirror, approve and support him, he turns to other possible objects in the environment. What the expectation cannot be met by the mother, the father can meet. The father is erect, solid and responsive enough to meet this need. The other person can continue his journey towards becoming an individual again by being with him. Thus, he gets the opportunity to escape from the unhealthy grip of his mother and continue his development within the structure of the relationship he will establish with the healthy father. Since the mother's needs and unrest will continue, a smooth process cannot be experienced even if desired. But in any case, in the presence of such a devouring and negatively affecting mother, having a solid father who will stabilize her will provide a rescuer role, at least a little.
As a result, heaven; As an adult, mature individual who is physically, spiritually and socially well, she is under the feet of those who act as mothers with love and compassion.
Let's stay with love.
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