In most of the movies about extraterrestrial beings, it has been explained that these beings have an attitude towards consuming the natural riches in our world. Written and visual advertisements direct us to consumption, and of course they do this by creating the perception that we need it or by promising something (lifestyle, image, high self-esteem, etc.). When we look closely and carefully at what is happening in life, we can see that this attitude towards consumption is actually present in most areas of life. It is possible to encounter attitudes towards consumption in many areas, from government policies to interpersonal relations. Undoubtedly, in this case, the economic system that exists in the world has a great impact. This economic system is a system based on people consuming and consuming people. Today, we seriously observe the reflections of this in interpersonal relations. Especially in dating relationships, these consumption-oriented relationships attract attention.
In the scenarios of movies and TV series, a person has more than one relationship or relationships that change frequently and are not in order, and in weekend magazine programs, the relationship of such and such a celebrity with another celebrity. At a time when marriage programs tell everyone that everyone receives and receives electricity (!!!!) from each other at varying rates and at varying times, a form of relationship is undoubtedly being imposed openly and secretly. In this type of relationship, one goes from one lover (!!!) to another, from one emotion to another. Everything works like a vicious circle. First, liking turns into excitement, then they spend time together for a while, then it becomes clear that expectations are not met or incompatible, and a separation, disappointment, anger, and sadness occur. Later, the relationships around them become noticeable and a new relationship is started in order to alleviate the feeling of deep loneliness or the pain of the past relationship. This situation continues like this. Every time a cognition (thought) is built to start a new relationship. This is sometimes; Acting out of grudge and anger (which is most likely a psychological phenomenon used without awareness to cover up sadness and loneliness). defense) A new relationship is formed to put the ex-lover in his/her place, and sometimes an expression is used: "Loneliness belongs to Allah." As a result, one feels as if one is obliged to have a relationship.
Humans live in society and, of course, it must be admitted that they have needs such as loving, being loved, being valued, receiving approval, and belonging to a place or a group. However, unconsciously moving from one relationship to another and consuming someone else or a relationship each time causes serious emotional damage to the individual. While consuming relationships, the individual is actually consuming himself at the same time. The sense of trust weakens and the chance of achieving true love decreases due to this situation.
Healthy relationships undoubtedly bring about a healthier society. In this case, starting a relationship based on momentary intense emotions seems to cause us to get into a relationship that consumes us. First of all, it is necessary to get away from them in order to protect ourselves and of course others. In all of this, do you think, to some extent, "Isn't loneliness something that should be tolerated?"
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