Marriages are built with beautiful dreams, white wedding dresses and groom's suits, weddings and associations. However, many of them end in disappointment. Domestic unrest and divorces are increasing. Especially when we look at those who divorced in the first years of their marriage, it is referred to as 'Severe Disagreement'.
Of course, he meets hundreds of people by chance, both in education, work and social environments, and he becomes interested in only one of them and spends a lifetime with them. You are deciding to marry the person you will marry.
But before making this important decision, do you believe that you have chosen the right spouse? Because this important decision you will make will determine who you will spend your next life with, and most importantly, with whom you will grow old.
Ask Yourself These When Choosing a Spouse!
• Do I feel ready to get married?
• Am I ready to take on the responsibilities that come with marriage?
• Do I get married out of love, affection and desire, or do I see it as a haven just to escape from my family or the problems I'm experiencing?
• Do I have love and respect for him/her?
/> • Do I find her physically and sexually attractive enough?
• Do I respect her ideas?
• Will I be able to give her the freedom to be herself without forcing her to be "me" or stifling her?
• I am open to her feelings and thoughts. and can I express it clearly?
• Do I believe that I can cope with the problems that may arise in our marriage?
• Do I have enough information about his family and background? Do I know the differences? Am I ready for the problems and solutions that these differences may cause?
• Do I have the potential to parent the child I will raise?
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If you answered "yes" to at least half of these questions, you may think that you are ready to get married.
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