Do you have some problems that are not going well in your relationship?
Do you ever have difficulty conveying your feelings to each other?
So, do you go through periods where you start to think that you don't know each other well enough, even though everything started so well?
Or do you ever experience communication conflicts?
All these problems I mentioned are actually problems that a couple can experience during their relationship and can only overcome if they have a healthy relationship structure. On top of all this, we can also add your root family problems in marriage (with your own parents). However, the main thing you need to know is; Such problems can be experienced in many relationships, but strong and healthy relationships can overcome these problems.
The Door to a Strong and Healthy Relationship Structure: Family, Marriage and Couple Therapy with the Relationship Compass Model
Couple therapy, as the name suggests, actually involves the spouses in the therapy process together. It is a process in which the therapist participates and does not involve individuality, and the therapist listens to the couple together and in turn, listening to their problems by taking the perspective of both parties, and teaches them the knowledge and skills to solve their problems.
Relationship Compass Family, Marriage and Couple Therapy Model was developed by Clinical Psychology Professor Hürol Fışıloğlu and enables spouses to understand the source of the problem they are experiencing in the first detailed interview, and how spouses can express themselves better to each other in the ongoing sessions. It is an effective psychotherapy model that allows them to learn, listen to each other, try to understand each other and stay closer. After the detailed interview, the spouses are presented with a road map on what path to follow in the next steps. In this way, spouses who are in an impasse begin to resolve and understand each other better, and feel greater energy to solve their problems.
There is a general belief that the problems that arise in the spouse relationship are very difficult or impossible to solve, and this belief is wrong. There is a systematic way to solve every problem and this Systematic ways to solve problems can be learned. The most important point here is; The spouses can make a joint decision about whether they want to learn these methods or not.
I would like to underline that the main purpose of couple therapy is not to determine who is right, but that such a process is started in order to provide the spouses with the skills to solve the problem they are experiencing, and that a decision should be made together when starting this process. In this process, the couple is informed by applying some methods on how to solve the problems in the relationship, and by giving weekly homework on the methods they have learned, the spouses are supported to apply the methods they have learned in their lives and make them permanent.
At this point, the therapist guides the couple and acts as a compass.
Relationship Problems We Address in Family, Marriage and Couple Therapy:
-Premarital relationship problems -Relationship problems experienced by newlywed couples -Relationship problems experienced by spouses with babies - Relationship problems of spouses who have children during adolescence - Relationship problems of spouses whose children have grown up - Spouses who have relationship problems related to their own parents' problems - Separation - divorce problems - Spouses who do not have sexual problems but have problems in experiencing a better quality of sexuality - Problems related to health problems Living spouses - Problems in consanguineous marriages - Spouses experiencing relationship problems that are reflected on the child - Spouses experiencing relationship problems related to losses - Spouses experiencing problems with work, career and education - Remarriage problems - Single-parent family problems
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