“Our body is special only to us, we do not tell everyone about our private parts. It is wrong to talk about our private parts or to make comments and jokes about other people's private parts. These areas are sensitive, let's be careful while joking and playing with each other, my body belongs to me, I must protect it.
In addition, topics such as good touch - bad touch, good secret - bad secret, what we should do for our safety are studied. What we tell our students on this subject is briefly as follows:
Good touch: Touches that make you happy and do not disturb you are good touches. Hugging and kissing the people you love is a beautiful thing. For example: Your mother hugging and kissing you when you wake up. Dad hugging and kissing to wish good night. When your grandparents come to visit, everyone hugs and kisses each other.
Bad touch: Touches that make you feel uncomfortable are usually bad touches. Touch that hurts is bad touch. If you are touched even though you don't want to be touched, it is a bad touch. If the person touching you makes you feel uncomfortable, it's bad touching. If the touch scares you and makes you angry, it's a bad touch. Being hit or pushed is bad touching. The person who touched you badly may be someone you know or don't know, your age or older than you.
If you feel that you have been touched badly, be sure to share this with an elder you trust (mother, father, teacher, family elders, etc.). If the person who did this tells you that you should keep it and you are threatened, remember that you must tell.
Good secret: Secrets that make you and others very happy are good. Such as hiding a special gift you prepared for a loved one, hiding a surprise party, having a special password with your friend while playing games, having a special password with your friend or family, sleeping with a toy you love very much.
Bad secret:Bad secrets are events that worry you and make you sad inside. If you have a friend who hits you, kicks or punches you and hurts you, it is not good to keep it a secret. Because no one has the right to hurt you. People older than you pressuring you and taking your belongings or money �, threatening you and telling you not to tell anyone is a bad secret. Because no one has the right to take your belongings or money. No one has the right to touch you in a disturbing way. All these are bad secrets and the only way to feel good; You should tell this to the elders you trust and ask for their help. If a friend shares a bad secret with you and tells you not to tell anyone, try to persuade him to tell the secret to an adult. If he is still determined not to tell, do this for your friend's sake.
Suggestions for Families:
1. Teach your children your address.
2. Set a meeting point wherever you go.
3. Keep track of who, where and when your child is with and ask him to tell you. If you share this information about yourself, you will set an example for your children.
4. Inform your children in advance of any changes in your planning. For example; “If I'm late, that person can pick you up.” “.......you can wait for me at our neighbor's house.” “When something goes wrong, only the information given by ............ people is correct.”
5. Listen to what your child tells you without judging. While listening, be careful to stay calm and control your reactions so that what they say is not interrupted or this is not the last time they say it!
6. Instead of telling your child real-life stories or stories with "bad endings", give examples of correct behavior. Our goal is to protect them, not to scare them.
At the end of this training, our students can share their knowledge with you or ask questions on the subject. Please listen to them, answer only what they ask without going beyond the question they ask. If you are not able to give an answer at that moment or you are not sure whether the answer you will give will be appropriate or not, you can save time by saying "I may not be able to give a good answer right now, I will learn this subject for you" and share the appropriate and accurate information with your child as soon as possible. If our children cannot find answers to their questions from us, their search for answers often leads them to the wrong sources and may cause them to obtain more or incorrect information than necessary. ir.
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