Do You Want to Be Right or Happy?
I know sometimes there are moments when you just want to tell. Your victimization, disappointments, sadness and all the negativities you have experienced...
And the only word you expect from the other party is;
“You are right!”
Doesn't everything that happens to us come from listening to the voice of our ego?
And you know, there is only one word he wants to hear;
“I'm right!”
If the purpose of our relationships is to be happy, the biggest mistake is trying to be right.
Unfortunately, being right and getting what we say does not bring happiness. So one side was defeated and you won. Most of the time, your loved one, your spouse, your friend, your child has lost and you are right!
It is also a tradition to wait for everything from the other side.
“Let him take one step towards me, I will run towards him. ! ”
We have heard this sentence many times.
Isn't it ridiculous and funny?
If what we want is to live a happy and peaceful life, what does it matter that you are right and who takes the 'first' step?
You take the first step, but don't see this step as a sacrifice for the other party!
You choose to move on instead of revenge!
Believe me, you will be the winner!
Choose to stay in the 'moment' instead of being stuck in the past!
Forget about being right! Choose to be happy!
But if you say "No, Tuba, I 'want to be right'", okay, I'll keep quiet, you are right...
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