Comparison: If you constantly compare yourself with the other person; If you try to compare the other person with yourself in terms of intelligence, intelligence, understanding, emotional consistency, competence, or even "what they are going through", it becomes very difficult to listen.
Trying to Read What is in the other person's mind: If you pay more attention to "what he really means" rather than what he says (based more on your own feelings and intuition); This means trying to read what is in the other person's mind and may mislead you.
Making Preliminary Preparations: It means mentally planning what you will say or what you will answer while the other person continues his speech. This prevents you from listening.
Judgement: If you have already decided that the other person is not worth listening to, you cannot "hear" what he/she says.
Advice. Giving advice: Attempting to give advice before the other person has finished speaking is a sign that you are trying to give advice rather than listening.
Getting into an argument: In a situation where you do not agree with what the other person says, what he/she is saying is a sign that you are trying to give advice rather than listening. If you are trying to put yourself forward and put yourself forward, regardless of what he says, it means you are in a fight.
Diversion from the Topic: If you deviate from the topic when you are bored or feel uncomfortable in conversation, it means you are breaking off communication.
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