There are problems in every relationship, there may be aspects that go wrong, not being able to solve the problems can lead to separation, while not being aware of the problems or not trying to solve them can lead to cheating. Cheating sometimes involves filling a void in the cheater's life and satisfying a need, such as love, sexuality, lust, passion,
being cared for, trust, attention, not meeting expectations, and since these needs are not met, someone is around someone who will satisfy this
need. He may start to show interest in her. Today, cheating and what happens after cheating stem from not knowing how problems occur and how to solve them, or not caring about them, or not showing any effort to fix their relationships. The way to prevent cheating
is to be happy and make happy. Unhappy couples may tend to cheat much more easily.
Show attention to your spouse, spare special time for him/her, and make nice words and compliments, and keep him/her happy. Don't let your relationship
become ordinary, keep love, passion and mystery alive in your relationship. Never belittle, scold, belittle, humiliate, or humiliate your spouse, especially in front of others. Respect him/her.
Do not lie to your spouse, be honest and keep your promises. Show that you care about your partner's feelings, thoughts, expectations and needs, appreciate him/her and make him/her feel valued. Use the language of we, not me, get involved in common life, create the concept of family with the feeling of we
and don't be selfish. Accept your partner's point of view even in situations where you are right. You do not have to agree
but accept and make him/her feel that his/her opinions are valuable, sometimes being right does not bring anything
try to be happy. Be sure to say the things that make you unhappy or disturb you in an appropriate language, without offending your partner, and speak constructively, moderately and calmly. Never compare your relationship, marriage and
spouse with others, no one is perfect, do not constantly point out flaws,
appreciate the positive aspects abundantly. Accept each other as they are, don't try to change them, don't try to turn your partner into someone you want them to be, don't pressure them to change. Don't bring work home Neither in your mind nor in reality. When you come home, stay away from individual issues (phone, internet, TV, etc.). Create common times to spend time alone with your spouse (chatting, watching movies, listening to music, playing mind games, making puzzles, etc.) Establish physical contact while watching TV or movies at home. One of the most important
issues in marriage is sexuality, that is, the insurance of marriage, talk about sexuality and your fantasies with your spouse, add color to your bedroom, try to find a middle ground if you have sexual incompatibility. Remember, a sweet tongue draws the snake out of its hole.
HOPE YOU WILL NOT BE DECEIVED.
THE ATTRACTION OF DECEPTION
Why do we deceive?
Deception is an important issue that has existed for centuries and will continue as long as there are human beings. . More
The allure of the ban begins with Adam and Eve: by eating the forbidden fruit. The forbidden fruit is more attractive to human beings than even heaven
. It creates forbidden desire, creates passion and excitement. For this reason
concepts such as prohibited, obstruction, obscurity, mystery and sin are the main elements of the lust of cheating.
However, marriage is based on accessibility, love, ownership, formality, respect and approval. Just as if they gave you an envelope and told you not to open it, from that moment on you would start to wonder what was inside that
envelope. Of course, these reasons cannot be a justification for cheating, not every cheating happens out of the blue. Generally, a need or a desire may arise to satisfy it. Some studies suggest that cheating may be genetic, but it is difficult to know the exact reason. While society predicts monogamy, cheating is encouraged more with TV series, movies, media and role models. Even telling boys at younger
ages that you will hurt a lot of girls lays the foundation for cheating and
legitimizes the act for men.
We cheat and are deceived
Although cheating varies from person to person, some According to some, a sexual experience with another spouse or lover is cheating; for some, it means looking after someone else; for some, it means falling in love with someone else and establishing an emotional bond. While men's cheating generally occurs in the form of sexual experience, women's cheating is currently the highest in the history of the world. We are living in
periods. Cheating is easy and normal in the new world order. Our social norms and customs are changing; We now carry our chat styles, dating environments, entertainment and sexuality to virtual
environments. We become selfish because we do not socialize; Therefore, if our needs are not met immediately, we turn to other places and to other people, which also increases deception. TV series, social
networks have diversified the expectations in our relationships, so unspoken expectations that are not met
sow the seeds for cheating.
When it comes to cheating, men come to mind, but nowadays the cheating rates of women are increasing
. . Most men are more likely to be caught cheating than women. Considering that, women are less likely to be caught cheating. According to research conducted worldwide, 60% of men and 30% of women cheat. Cheating is valid for everyone, there is no gender, age, education
socio-cultural discrimination. Generally, men can cheat when they are happy in their marriage, but
women do not cheat when they are happy. In general, cheating for revenge is more common in women. While women can forgive sexual cheating, it can even be a matter of murder for men.
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