Every individual has difficulties in establishing a healthy relationship. First of all, it is important that we pay attention to what establishing a relationship is, how it should be established, and what we need to pay attention to when establishing it. Healthy relationship management with your children is only possible as long as you understand them and believe that they are individuals.
Every child is special and a whole with its characteristics. One of the important points that parents should pay attention to is that they know and accept that each child is a different individual. If we manage to accept and love our children as they are, we will have a tremendous relationship with them. We must know that our future is not in the hands of the children, but the parents who raise them.
What are the benefits of establishing healthy relationships with children?
First of all, not only with children; The relationship an individual establishes with himself is also very important. The better we know ourselves in terms of establishing relationships, the better we will be understood by the other party. Establishing a healthy relationship with children is valuable as it greatly affects their future personality structure. If the parent manages the relationship correctly, the children will have a healthy relationship with their parents.
Healthy relationship management creates a strong bond between you and your children. This allows you to be aware of your children's unusual situations, the slightest problems they experience, their social relationships, future planning and every aspect of their lives. It also means that your sharing with your children will increase. Knowing them, knowing what they want, respecting their decisions, accepting them as they are and not putting them in a life race will help you gain both their trust and love.
What should we do as parents?
We should not intervene excessively in children's spaces. We must listen to their wishes and pay attention to what they do not want. Not the way we see it from our parents; We must support children so that they can move on the right path. We should know that we are in the age of technology and use this age as beneficially as possible. We don't always ask our children to do the things we ask them to do. We should be doing it too.
We should know how easy it is to actually get along with your children. And we must remember that we are the ones who make this difficult. We must not forget to develop together with them and walk on the same path with them. Treat your children not as friends; We must not forget that it is right to act like parents. Because they already have friends. Your job is to be a parent. We should remain calm even on points where we disagree, and give advice in a position where we can establish eye contact. Instead of using the imperative mood, we should approach it with sentences such as 'Doing this is very valuable for you and us'. In this way, your contact with your children will be more meaningful.
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