If you want your child to be happy, say these words often.
Almost all of the communication established with parents is hidden somewhere in your subconscious library. There are such sentences that they are always on the front shelf, an earring in your ear, an echo in your mind. When you start a relationship, start a job, or encounter a problem, the voice that comes out spontaneously from within you often belongs to your mother or father. These words will affect the step you take, positively or negatively.
So, what are the words that are effective in making your child happy?
1. I'M GLAD TO HAVE YOU...
The struggle for existence lies in the essence of man. This essence connects people to life. Survival has a biological dimension as well as a psychological dimension. This dimension gains meaning when the child is accepted spiritually and emotionally by his parents. This sentence is one of the expressions that best describes being accepted.
2. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM, KNOW THAT WE ARE HERE FOR YOU...
For Europeans, this word is not used much after the age of 18. But it has a very important and real place in our culture. Support is provided for the child who enters business life after school is completed, the belongings of the married person are purchased, and the wedding is held. If these are not enough, the grandchildren are also taken care of with care. Parents are always there for their children. Children who know this always feel emotionally strong.
3. IS IT IMPORTANT THAN YOU?...
It is said to the child who gets upset when he gets a low grade, or to the child who gets scared when he accidentally damages something. It is one of the sentences that best explains that material things are not more important than the child. It affects the child's psychology very positively, it is like therapy…
4. IT'S SO FUN TO LIVE WITH YOU...
The first criterion for children to feel happy is to laugh. For them, laughing is happiness. It is very effective to make life fun and to have common jokes. Recognize and use their sense of humor. Children are much better at laughing than we adults are. While adults laugh an average of 4-5 times a day, children laugh around 400 times.
5. I TRUST YOU…
A child's It is one of the most beautiful sentences he wants to hear from his parents. You can express this feeling and thought with many of our behaviors, but the most effective is to express it.
6. LAUGHING SUITS YOU…
Children cannot be happy in societies where laughing is considered shameful and being happy is considered strange. If children laugh to their heart's content, they feel happy. Children experience all emotions, but this sentence is very effective in reinforcing the happy moment.
7. GOOD LUCK...
It is one of the most beautiful words of our culture that we use not to collapse in the face of failures, but to stand up and fight again, and it has no English equivalent.
8. BEING YOUR MOTHER/DAD IS A VERY NICE FEELING...
This is one of the most beautiful sentences that make a child happy. Knowing that his parents are happy with his existence makes the child very happy.
9. BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE...
Being happy is closely related to appreciating the things you have. A child who knows how to be content with what he has and appreciates what he has will be happy.
10. I WILL BE A SACRIFICE TO THE ONE WHO GIVES YOU…
This is the sentence in which love is expressed most intensely in Anatolia. It is a way to thank God for giving it. It makes the child feel very intensely that he/she is valuable.
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