Vaginismus is a disorder that can be treated, but can last a lifetime if left untreated. Sexuality, which has become a problem that must be postponed and avoided due to vaginismus, also deeply affects relationships. For this reason, its treatment should not be delayed. Psychologist and Sexual Therapist Batuhan Toprak gave information on the subject."
"Vaginismus is a disorder that can be treated, but can last a lifetime if left untreated. Sexuality, which has become a problem that must be postponed and avoided due to vaginismus, also deeply affects relationships. For this reason, its treatment should not be delayed. Psychologist and Sexual Therapist Batuhan Toprak gave information on the subject. It is a woman's involuntary fear, contraction and avoidance reaction. Vaginismus is due to 90% psychological and 10% organic causes. Among the organic causes of vaginismus, it is mostly congenital biological problems in the hymen, vagina and external genital area.
Causes of Vaginismus;
Exaggerated first night stories and myths
Extreme religious and moral rules
Traumatic sexual intercourse experience
Sexual traumas
Nothing can enter my sexual organ, if it does, it may tear, I will bleed a lot, etc.
In whom is vaginismus more common?
• Those who have been sexually abused in the past
• Those who follow the strict religious rules of the people around them, family and close circle
• Those who have been raised morally very strict since childhood
Does vaginismus go away on its own?
Vaginismus does not go away on its own! Don't say 'I'll just give it some time and it will pass anyway'; It takes away from both your psychology and your marriage and relationship.
Is it possible for a vaginismus patient to get pregnant?
YES, it is possible. Don't say that I have vaginismus and I won't get pregnant anyway! Although its incidence is very low, pregnancy can occur as a result of ejaculation and sperm entering the vagina and being fertilized there.
What is the effect of vaginismus on marriage / relationship?
Vaginis It should not be postponed. If it is postponed, you may experience problems in your marriage / relationship. Among my clients, there are those who are about to end their marriage for this reason, and there are those who support their spouses.
Vaginismus Endangers Marriages
Misconceptions about vaginismus. What is known?
• My vagina is very narrow, small, so I cannot have intercourse (there is absolutely no such situation, the vaginal muscles are so flexible that imagine a baby coming out)
• Some women believe that their hymen is too thick and therefore they cannot have sexual intercourse, and some patients with vaginismus even have their hymen opened by surgery (the result is disappointment, as if the anesthesia is not enough, problems may arise in their relationships)
• Using sedatives, Using muscle relaxant creams helps
. Drinking alcohol solves the problem. Having sex while the person is drunk is not a solution for vaginismus, and drinking alcohol before each sexual intercourse can create alcohol addiction, which is another psychological problem.
• Vaginismus will go away on its own over time (vaginismus will not go away on its own, help from a specialist must be sought. )
Is vaginismus a vaginal disease?
I seem to hear "yes" answers from many of you, but "no". Vaginismus is not a vaginal disease. Vaginismus is completely a subconscious anxiety and fear problem.
Vaginismus treatment?
My clients are the first to experience this problem. When they come, I see that they are very anxious, anxious and ashamed, however, there is nothing to forget, it is a completely normal disease that can happen to anyone.
The treatment is not as difficult as it seems, it is quite simple, vaginismus is not a woman's problem alone. It is the couple's problem, spouses and partners must support their spouses during treatment.
What happens if vaginismus is not treated?
If vaginismus is not treated Problems arise in your marriage/relationship; over time, the tolerance shown by his wife may decrease, and since the man cannot experience his sexuality, he may look for a partner outside, and this will wear out the institution of marriage. and may even end.
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