Can you really say no or let me ask you this, are you really free?
What is freedom according to you? Do you believe that you are free no matter how you live or how you feel?
For example, when making decisions in your life, do you think only about yourself or do you consider others as well?
>Are you afraid of losing? Are there any people in particular that you are afraid of losing?
Do you have boundaries? How long do you stand behind your boundaries? Or do you find it easier to take on the victim role
?
I can hear some of you asking, "Do I play the victim role?" Yes, the victim role is when a person always holds someone else responsible for what happened to him/her and pities or blames himself/herself.
For example, you have a job to do. And your spouse or someone in your family loves you very much
it made me sad and angry. And because you didn't know what to do out of anger, you didn't do your work or you postponed it. Then, you blame the other party by saying "It's all because of him, if he hadn't made me angry, this wouldn't have happened."
You become angry. Maybe you will be angry with yourself, maybe you will feel sorry for yourself. These and similar situations restrict your freedom. And you are not even aware that your freedom is slipping from your hands.
Remember that constantly being in the victim role or living in fear is different. In other words, in every situation where you cannot say no
, you allow your boundaries to be violated and you sink deeper into the victim psychology
which does not make you free.
Be free and self-reliant, life In addition to improving the quality, you will resolve and repair all your conflicts and conflicts about yourself in all areas, from your social relationships
to your private relationships, from your home life to your business life
Remember this, my dear readers: Even when a person is in conflict with someone else, he is only fighting with himself
.
That's all for today. Move forward happily with love.
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