Our society cannot accept adolescents. The concept of adolescent is still used as a derogatory concept. It's one thing if they act like a child, it's another problem for them to act like an adult.
There are those who say that a 14-year-old should not act like a teenager, there are those who say that adolescence did not exist in our time, and there are those who say that adolescence cannot be this much, sir. There are those who say that he is hiding behind adolescence, and there are those who ask why my neighbor's child is not a teenager.
The funniest sentence that has been said to me is: Teacher, I am the boy, finish his adolescence, ask me whatever you wish.
My three wishes. It happened: I said talk, care and allow.
Experts generally limit adolescence as a time zone, we can say it is between the ages of 10-20. In my opinion, adolescence is not a behavioral pattern with a certain time or limit. Look around you, adult adolescents, child adolescents, parents who are more adolescent than adolescent.
It is also harmful to see adolescence as a bridge or a transition period. Adolescence is a period. We will either see all periods as a transition or accept all periods.
The duration of adolescence discussions is also controversial. There may be fluctuations in ages as computers, phones, and metropolises affect the hormonal and psychosocial balance.
I am amazed when I look at books called 10 practical ways to understand adolescents. Teenagers are not aliens, they were not dropped from the sky. There is only one way to understand adolescents, to talk.
The best way to truly understand a family is not the approach towards the children, but the distance towards the adolescents. The real testing ground where a family is the real family and where it says "I am a family" is the years it spends with adolescents.
Developments in adolescence are a sign of being joyful and healthy. Distance in adolescence, respect for the desire to distance; taking chances within the family; It is also the family's duty to pass on little things to the adolescent.
Small withdrawals, clumsiness, forgetfulness, speed, friendship and group behavior in adolescents are also something to be celebrated.
Menstruation, enlargement of breasts and hips, Talking about romantic partners and spending time with his body and in his room are also his good qualities.
Adolescence again with tahini It is the place where bitter, sour, sadness and depressive characteristics are mixed like molasses. Tahini is as valuable as molasses. It is not always reasonable to expect submissive characteristics.
What prolongs adolescence, what makes it painful, what makes it tense varies according to the familial perspective.
Adolescents are not aliens, if adolescents are aliens, remember that aliens are not with us. We make up ten thousand excuses to fight aliens.
Adolescence is health, wellness, happiness; music, poetry, love; hormone, body, touch; It means discovery, occupation, exile, as well as pain, sadness and depression.
The things I mentioned at the end include the world's treatment of adolescents.
In essence, neither our society could protect our adolescent nor our adolescent could understand himself. .
Adolescents were neither good for Jesus nor Moses. As a society, we do not like teenagers because teenagers do not like teenagers either. Because our society is a community of teenagers, neither childhood nor adulthood is allowed.
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