If a person doesn't see himself, he always wants someone else to see him, and if he doesn't love himself, he always wants someone else to love him...
We all have wounds and pains... Ignoring these, closing our eyes to all the emotions we suppress, subconsciously, and are not aware of, makes us lose ourselves. We see that a series of cliché words and approaches such as "subconscious cleaning", "forgiveness" and "acceptance" are on the rise. The subconscious is not dirty so that you can clean it, the subconscious is not bad so that you can purify it... The subconscious is a natural part of our consciousness that belongs only to you, that is painful, and that contact with makes you anxious.
But this, getting rid of pain, cleansing, breathing therapies, improves our contact with ourselves. It really breaks us... That's why we want someone else to see us and love us. Sometimes, we do not leave our parents' knees and demand this love from them when we are old, sometimes we want our lover or spouse to always see us and love us, sometimes our teacher, sometimes our friend, without ever having the courage to love ourselves...
What about you? How much do you see yourself, keep in touch with your body, mind and soul, and become aware of yourself?
The more a person is ready to discover himself, to see everything he hides within himself and to embrace everything he is; He leaves our sessions so whole and integrated. Here I take into account the person's speed and whether they are ready to explore themselves. As a System Constellation Therapist, I work with a person's roots, what they carry from their family system, and how whatever they are unaware of or have not seen has spread to the person they are today. I work with what money represents in the system of a person who cannot establish a partner relationship or maintain a partner relationship, even if he does, from his relationship with his parents, and what money represents in the system of the person who constantly has money difficulties. When my client sees this, I help him take off his own wings and spread the wings to the person he wants to be.
You don't necessarily have to have a problem to get psychological counseling... Anyone who wants to discover themselves, see themselves, and get closer to themselves can start this process.
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