An important part of providing spiritual support to our family members and friends is to correctly understand their
anger, sadness and joy. We all have no doubt about this. But is it true? Unfortunately, not. Scientific research shows that we are not very successful in fully analyzing what others feel or think. The reason for this is that our perceptions are not objective. Paying attention to a stimulus in our environment, perceiving, judging and reacting appropriately is a very complex function of our brain. It is inevitable that this process will be affected by our own past positive and negative experiences. Often, our mental filters can leave us with a narrow field of view. From this field, we generally see a small part of the picture, not the whole. How objective can this be? We have often heard the phrase "you can't understand" and stared at his face in astonishment.
However, we think that we understand him very well and are even ready to give advice. So how can we be in the same room but in two different thought dimensions? The reason for this is hidden in our spiritual process, which I tried to explain above. Is it possible to remove these emotional barriers between ourselves and others? It would be great to quickly say yes to this question. Then the world would become a more comfortable home for all of us, right? But we all know what the truth is like. The media keeps exposing this incomprehensibility to our eyes every day: arguments, injuries, beatings, murders, police stations, courts etc. Research shows that many feelings of resentment, resentment and frustration arise from these communication errors. Otherwise, would even two people advocating the same thesis fight with each other?
When we talk about some people around us, we praise the characteristics of these people because they are very understanding and mature. If you pay attention, you will see that they are generally good listeners, do not interrupt, are patient, make good eye contact, and care about the other person's thoughts. These people say "I am there for them" in the other world. They create the perception that I have a place in the world. This feeling is very important for a person who is trying to find a meaning for his existence. In popular parlance, the feeling of "being treated like a man". The solution to the problem seems very simple, but it has not been implemented for centuries. I am afraid that at this rate it will take centuries more. …
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