Today, I want to talk about not being at peace with her body or not being at peace with one side of her body
. Why has plastic surgery
increased so much? Did my social media blow this up? How did the motivation to upload more beautiful
photos to social media or the perception of beauty pumped there
affected this situation?
The accepted nose shape, the accepted lip eyebrow forehead shape, the chin shape
There are plastic surgeries that lead to an inability to accept one's body, not being unique
and a social and physical anonymity.
Pearsing, hair transplant, eye surgery, eyebrow-eye shape
, shaping the lips, getting the nose done, face lift, hip
aesthetics, breast aesthetics, neck aesthetics, even going forward, rib removal and
slim waist, ear removal, tongue splitting, and arm and leg removal
There is a spectrum that goes all the way to extreme pathological points.
How does the media pump the human type. Media and capitalism turn two emotions into money. Envy: I don't have it, he doesn't have it or jealousy:
he has it, I have it too. Saying states.
Eric From says illusion, fear and loss of reality are intertwined. When it becomes massive
individuality is lost. Acceptance and approval take precedence. So
why do people put so much effort
into surgeries for acceptance and approval, and are they happy at the end? I wonder if
the desire to idealize the body and the effort to create a new self, the effort to be visible
may these be for the need to be more valuable and valued?
Getting likes is more important than anything else. If you don't like it, we see a lot of people who say go
from my page. Social media promotes fame.
Narcissism's greatest effort is to be famous. Then you can't be famous
with this type, you have to have surgery, change your left and right. Narcissism
is actually triggered on social media. Anxiety and burden are loaded on people
and the perception of beauty is pumped. As a result, people who cannot be at peace with themselves
cannot accept themselves, and whose integrity of self-perception is broken
are increasing. Avoidance of originality, intense feeling of guilt
inability to tolerate oneself leads to self-dislike.
There are serious problems in the periods of work-individuation
. Feeling inner emptiness, not being able to enjoy life
There is an effort to close the feeling of emptiness with an effort to be superior. There is alienation from reality, illusion and
surrender to illusion. The sense of incompleteness is a constituent element.
The first sense of lack is perceived when a person is first born.
The narcissist wants the other to love and approve of him/herself. Others are there to complete his
wishes. Since the mirror neurons do not work well
they do not feel empathy and they go out of their own will. In fact, did this
concept of beauty enslave people? Why is everyone trying to be alike
? Or in an effort to excel and become famous.
It would be a more accurate question to look at what deficiencies all these are going towards.
So when are all these considered a disease and pathological?
situations occur. First of all, we should say that getting plastic surgery is not a disease.
If; If the mind is constantly occupied with one side of the body, this
side of the body may or may not be defective, it doesn't matter if the mind is busy with this
. It is a state of constantly thinking about it, looking in the mirror, and being extremely uncomfortable with this
situation. As a result,
functionality deteriorates, attention is always here, and attention in other areas
narrows. There is an excessive preoccupation with one part of the body. Usually
begins in adolescence. At least half of the adolescents do not like something
but this is a temporary situation. If it becomes a problem, it continues after adolescence
and leads the person to avoidance behavior
narrows the person's life. This situation is more common in singles, women and
divorced people.
There is an obsessive compulsive preoccupation. He believes that he is flawed
feels worthless, thinks that he will not be loved
and has feelings of inadequacy.
Body Dism Orphic Disorder was accepted as a disease in the 1800s.
It is the name of an ugly woman in ancient times called dysmorphia.
So what kind of behaviors does this disorder cause? One cannot go out in public
out of shame. He believes that everyone finds him flawed. He is in fear of being mocked
. Unable to strive for life's goals.
He is distracted and attention is largely focused on the part of his body that he dislikes
. Depression begins. There is a possibility
that he has been mocked in the past. In the resolution, they may often make fun of themselves and the person may be affected by this
situation.
The person's self-perception is distorted. There are distortions
in his perception of himself. He thinks it rudely ugly. Shows dissociative symptoms
often breaks out of the moment. Plastic surgeries do not solve the situation and the
unconvinced person. Then it starts to be at peace with other parts of the body
. Because the problem is not in the body, but in the spiritual. The person needs to be treated spiritually, not plastic surgery
. People living with this disorder
avoid relationships, do not want to enter society
their feelings become blunt, drop out of school, their life is restricted, suicidal tendencies develop. He desires to be perfect. He needs to feel valued
. He has an extreme sensitivity to being liked.
It is almost as if the person connects success and happiness to aesthetic understanding.
He could not develop a sense of meaning in his life or his sense of meaning was deteriorated afterwards. The truth of the self deteriorates and self-confidence is destroyed.
In order to re-establish the distorted reality and self-perception, the person needs
psychotherapy. They do not accept this situation as a disease
. A depression usually occurs and they come to
seek professional help because of the depression. They have a high fear of criticism. They tend to magnify things, and they have a lot of
goods. They think all or nothing, they have no mental
flexibility. to be loved There is a belief that they are not worthy. Their denotation of the body
is distorted and they unrealistically attribute meanings to some
parts of the body.
The spiritual investment has shifted to the body. The relationship with the body has also deteriorated
and this situation will not change
no matter where the person goes, no matter where he has surgery. One has to be convinced that being happy is not about
being at peace. Eliminating the deficiency in the inner world is not possible with the body
.
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