It can be defined as not being able to orgasm at all or occasionally, or being able to orgasm through masturbation but not through sexual intercourse. Even though there is no problem that will disrupt sexual intercourse, there may be a problem with orgasm. Inability to orgasm even though there is no physical problem; It requires resolving the reason behind this situation. What are the causes of orgasm problem?
Haste foreplay, premature ejaculation problem, anger felt as a result of cheating, deterioration of the relationship, loss of interest and love, loss and depression, some physical diseases (diabetes, neurological disorders) in childhood Reasons such as age problems, puberty problems, sexual identity conflicts, extreme religious beliefs, sexual harassment, rape, distrust of the partner, fear of pregnancy may cause the problem of not being able to orgasm.
Treatment;
Evaluation Phase; (3 sessions): All information needed for a special treatment program for the couple is obtained. Childhood stories and marriage stories are listened to, and a sexual history form is applied. The source of the problem is identified and a special treatment program is prepared for the couple. A contract is made.
Relational Stage: If relationship problems cause orgasm problems, these problems in the relationship are detected. Communication skills are improved. Spouses solve their problems together.
Cognitive Phase: Common misconceptions about sexuality are corrected.
Emotional Phase: Roles and distribution of responsibilities between spouses are examined. Excessive child and extreme parental attitudes are balanced.
Behavioral Stage: Everything learned for new experiences is transformed into behavior.
Failure to orgasm in an average of 12 sessions, with the evaluation phase consisting of 3 sessions and the other stages being 9 sessions. The problem can be solved. This program is specific to the couple; the number of sessions for each stage varies depending on the couple's problem.
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