Couples prefer to remain silent instead of discussing the problems in their existing relationships, identifying the problems and making an effort to solve them. Or they do not remain silent and fight by hurting and blaming, and first the respect disappears between them, and then the love...
Especially women have a hard time coping with this feeling when they feel emotional emptiness. They either get sick too often, do too much shopping, visit family or friends, or get lost in another relationship. Sometimes personality disorders, sometimes childhood traumas, and sometimes serious problems in their marriages pave the way for couples to cheat on each other.
However, starting another relationship without making enough effort for the existing relationship or ending a relationship that does not work despite all efforts is cheating on the person himself, not on the other person. Because ignoring or ignoring the problems, as if believing that all the problems will end if they have a relationship with another person, is a big lie that the person tells himself.
Not only the person who is deceived, but also the person who cheats begins to lose faith and respect in himself after a while. starts. With the thought "If I can tell these lies, others can also lie to me", he gradually loses his trust in people and begins to become lonely and have more superficial relationships. leaves a mark. However, continuing a bad relationship despite everything is unfair for both parties.
For this reason, the facts must be faced and both parties must be able to find a solution.
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