For women, orgasm is the peak of sexual pleasure. It is a short-term experience that is felt throughout the body, along with rhythmic pulses in the vagina, after the nerve endings in the clitoris and vagina interact with the brain. If orgasm cannot be experienced despite sufficient physical and psychological sexual stimulation, then we can talk about orgasmic disorder.
REASONS
The duration of foreplay, arousal is short and/or Insufficiency: It is an important element that makes orgasm difficult. The nature and amount of stimulation required for orgasm varies from woman to woman. Most women also need stimulation to the clitoris in order to have an orgasm. The number of women who can orgasm without needing stimulation of the clitoris is small.
Lack of sexual knowledge: Lack of knowledge about the female genital area is an important factor. For example, if there is no information about what the clitoris is and its function, or if basic information about sexual anatomy is missing, orgasm may become difficult.
Lack of sexual communication: Lack of clear communication about sexuality, the woman's inability to clearly express the form of stimulation she enjoys. etc. Factors such as these make orgasm difficult.
Premature ejaculation in men: If the man has difficulty in controlling his ejaculation and ejaculates prematurely, it becomes difficult for the woman to orgasm through sexual intercourse, even though she is aroused.
Inability to give up control: Some women who cannot give up control in various areas of their lives may have a similar attitude in sexual life. Since orgasm is an experience in which control is lost, even for a moment, women who cannot give up control may have difficulty at this point.
Past sexual trauma: Previously experienced sexual traumas can make sexual intimacy with the partner difficult in adulthood.
Psychiatric disorders: Some diseases such as depression and anxiety disorders These disorders can also affect sexual life. For example, since a depressed person will experience a general reluctance to live, different parts of sexual life may be affected by this situation. Again, since a woman experiencing intense anxiety will be mentally busy, it may be difficult for her to leave herself alone and focus on the moment.
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