ORGASM DISORDERS IN WOMEN
Orgasmic disorder in women is a condition that occurs in the form of not being able to orgasm at all, not being able to orgasm from time to time, or not being able to orgasm through sexual intercourse, but orgasming through masturbation. It is the persistent or recurrent delay or absence of orgasm after a normal phase of sexual arousal. This disorder causes significant distress or difficulties in interpersonal relationships. A healthy woman is capable of experiencing multiple ejaculation during intercourse. Unfortunately, many women have never been able to fully ejaculate in their lives. 29% of women stated that they had never ejaculated, and 70% stated that they had never ejaculated during sexual intercourse.
Causes of Orgasm Problems; A woman who does not know her vagina and clitoris does not know that sexual intercourse and clitoral stimulation will give pleasure, and even thinks that it will hurt. Ejaculation is a process that can be learned by a woman being able to control her body and muscles. In order to ejaculate, the woman must make an effort. A woman who just waits without tensing her body cannot ejaculate, she just waits for ejaculation and the result will be negative. For this reason, if there is no or incomplete sexual education, orgasm problems may be encountered. · Spouse rejection; A woman marrying someone else against her will, while her heart is in someone else's heart, may cause her not to want her partner during sex.
· Insufficient warning; Adequate sexual stimulation occurs when physical contact, imagination and affect are complete. Deficiency in one of these causes inadequate stimulation. Stimulation at the appropriate time, place, with the appropriate partner, for the appropriate duration and intensity is decisive for 'adequate stimulation'. Sometimes perfect warnings given by the wrong person can be painful, painful and disturbing. · Relational conflicts and problems; Sex can be considered as a way for people to share their bodies, release their emotions, and determine an enjoyable way of coping with life. While there may be communication problems between the couple when there is no good sex, if there is already an existing conflict and communication problem between the couples, a bad situation may occur. It is inevitable for them to live an ex life. A bad sex life causes disappointment, partners blaming each other, and loss of self-confidence due to sexual inadequacy. Over time, this couple becomes unable to talk about sexuality and share anything about their desires and likes. · Anxiety, fear and anxiety; These emotions prevent sexual arousal and enable the body to defend and protect itself. The belief that sexual intercourse will hurt creates fear. Financial concerns, moving, buying a new house, having children, family elders starting to live in the same house, and job loss cause these emotions. · Feelings of shame, guilt and sinfulness; A woman who considers sexuality as a sin will feel guilty after such an experience, will think that she needs to be punished, and will feel ashamed. The criminal must be punished and the woman finds a way and punishes herself. · Becoming a mother at an early age; A woman becomes a mother without knowing her own body, without learning her femininity, and cannot learn to ejaculate. · Taking the role of a spectator; Focusing on what should happen instead of focusing on pleasure; Focusing on the process of the relationship and making voluntary movements instead of acting naturally harms the arousal process. · Low sexual self-confidence; Women who criticize themselves excessively and think they have to be perfect tend to dislike their bodies. Poor body perception is directly proportional to the woman's inability to express her sexual desires and not feeling well during sex.
· Performance anxiety; Fear of failure inhibits women.
· Sexual traumas; Sexual maltreatment, harassment, assault, and incest during early childhood, childhood and adolescence negatively affect sexual life.
· Fear of pregnancy,
· Failure to resolve marital conflicts and this damaging sexual intercourse,
> · Parent-daughter relationship; The girl who is angry with her mother, has resentments towards her, but is supposedly obedient, basically experiences feelings of abandonment, unlovedness, and being alone. He does not want to lose his mother and father, but on the other hand, he does not have the strength to express the negative emotions he feels. These emotions are reflected on his partner, he cannot verbally express his negative feelings towards him and he experiences discomfort during sex.
• Partner's premature ejaculation problem,
• Loss of interest in partner,
• Alcoholism, depression and sadness,
• Wide vagina, vaginal discharge,
/> • Diabetes, neurological disorders and drug intake,
• Lack of a regular and healthy family life,
• Sexual identity conflicts,
• Being cheated on,
The aim of treatment is to make orgasm the most important part of sexuality. Rather than seeing it as an important purpose, foreplay, arousal, sexual experience, pleasure and enabling couples to get to know each other's bodies more closely. Sexuality is not a duty; It is to make couples feel that there is no sin, prohibition or shame, and to enable them to have experiences based on mutual happiness.
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