The child's personality development begins at a very early age and affects later periods of life. Experts state that parents give love and education to the child, and point out the importance of the dose of this love. Experts emphasize the importance of discipline for child development and say, “Love without discipline actually leaves the child empty. Just like a family that rejects too much, a family that loves too much harms its child. "This negatively affects the child's personality and identity formation," he warned.
Family attitudes have a lifelong impact Pointing out the importance of child development, Leyla Arslan pointed out that the most important issue in child development is the attitude of the mother and father.
Rejection leaves a scar for life
If this event did not happen, if children were born in an unwanted way at an unwanted time, these children are rejected by their parents and this Rejection is an attitude that leaves a mark throughout the child's life.
Rejection makes the child aggressive
This situation makes the child aggressive and asocial. The child never knows what to do, right or wrong, and becomes someone who looks for approval. Even when he cannot get it from his parents, he wants to get it from his friends outside and becomes the leader of a gang and engages in things that will attract attention. No matter how much we look at it, we see that the effects and attitudes of the mother and father are very important behind all the incompatible behaviors.
The dose of love is important
The dose of love is important, the way you give love is important. Just like a family that rejects too much, a family that loves too much harms its child. This negatively affects the child's personality and identity formation. Undisciplined love actually leaves the child in a void, and discipline is also very important in child development.
Everything the child says should not be done
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Arslan noted that the child can only be taught what to do, where and when with the discipline given to the children and said, “Therefore, while giving all these, parents develop some behavioral patterns. For example, some parents only care about their own comfort. He thinks that children can do whatever they want if they leave them alone. In such a situation, the child does whatever he wants; right or wrong. The mother does whatever the child says, and in such a case the child becomes spoiled and selfish.
The child should be observed carefully
The most positive behavior for parents is to accept the child, love him/her, act affectionately, be tolerant and enable him/her to create a living space for himself/herself. It is very important to ensure that the child progresses at his own pace of development. The child does not have to be the person we want. The biggest mistake parents make is trying to mold their child into the mold they want. This is where the conflict begins. In fact, parents have to be the audience and understand the direction of the child's interest, curiosity and development. Parents should first know themselves and be aware of their own behavior and attitudes. One should observe children very well because every child is different from birth.
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