Unfortunately, we see that the cases of cheating, which have become a big problem in today's societies, continue to increase day by day. The environment in which people live, the environmental factor, sociological and psychological conditions legitimize this problem, but also cause to stretch or even destroy the familial ties of couples. Cheating is not a one-sided situation, and many studies show that women are at least as involved in cheating as men. According to a study, the primary factor for spouses to cheat on each other is the lack of sexual satisfaction. The inability of the person to receive enough attention from his spouse has led him to cheat many times. So much so that even if a person thinks of leaving because he could not meet his expectations about marriage even from his spouse whom he married willingly and happily, it is seen that he tends to cheat because he thinks that he will be under the influence of environmental factors. According to a study, in a sample of fifty farms, it was observed that the people involved in the infidelity case were still married and living together. According to another study, the duration of marriage, financial situation and education of couples also cause infidelity cases. As a matter of fact, this situation is more common in couples with an average marriage period of five or more. When the programs are contrary to the ethical and basic structure of the family, they have an impact on the genetic structure of the people.
These TV series and programs justify cheating and create the perception that this situation is normal in people's minds. Because the events experienced here show that it is normal for men and women to experience such events due to their nature or to seek excitement as a forbidden love, and even this is an example of courage. As a result of this, it is observed that the cases of cheating in the society for the last ten years have increased significantly compared to the previous years.
Another situation is the environmental factors that the person is in. This situation has a notable place under the cases of male and female cheating. eg If the environment the man is in is suitable for deception and where he can be connected to the instinct of boasting and be appreciated, the man will not think that this will have a shameful or devastating effect at all. Because the environment the man is in will push him to do this and even support him. Although the situation seen in women does not create such an environment, the effect begins in the family first. If she grew up in an oppressive and taboo family environment, the woman will try to exclude its negative effects. She will remember her traumas in the smallest behavior she has seen in her family and will look for the only way to get away from it outside. Because the idea of women is generally to be protected, loved and to feel valued rather than a one-night stand.
The main issue that needs to be examined here is; What should people do when faced with a case of cheating? do they have the opportunity to continue their relationship? Especially in couples who have children, mental depressions are reflected on their children and as a result, they leave deep traces not only in the couples but also in the future lives of the children. In this regard, it is very important that people can apply to couples therapy and reduce the effect of the event. Couples who receive support can not only save their marriage, but also manage to minimize the devastating effects of the event.
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