People's goals in life are different. Some people want to have a very good career, some want to earn a lot of money, and some want to be very famous. Among the primary dreams of many people is to have a happy and healthy relationship.
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Marriage, which is a period of beautiful days that are among the dreams of couples, is perhaps the most important turning point in the lives of couples. is one of the points. Before marriage, which is one of the turning points in life, you should reconsider yourself, your partner and your relationship; It will make you look at marriage more realistically and only ask yourself, "Am I ready for marriage?" You should get married when you can confidently answer the question "Yes".
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Marriage is the acceptance within the framework of social rules of sharing and legitimizing all kinds of authority and responsibilities resulting from the union of a man and a woman. . Marriage also enables the formation of family and kinship institutions within society.
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For a healthy society, there must be healthy marriages. The important element for the formation of healthy marriages is, first of all, knowing oneself; Then, it is about making a conscious decision by not leaving the decision to choose your spouse to chance.
KNOW YOURSELF BEFORE MARRIING!
People who are going to get married usually think about what their prospective spouse is like. However, since they do not know each other well, when he questions whether they can get along with him, they cannot give a correct answer. Therefore, in marriage, a person should know his own characteristics and be aware of his own personality. You cannot know the other person without knowing yourself. Self-awareness means being aware of some information about oneself. Those who do not know themselves are forced to live the life that others have prepared for them. They cannot be themselves. A person should be able to make healthy choices and know how to react to events; It depends on how well you know yourself. To do this, a person starts by analyzing what kind of person he is in his family life, business life and social life.
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Tell yourself;
· A responsible person. Are you human?
· Are you a tolerant and respectful person?
· What do you like most about yourself? What is your unique characteristic?
· Can you be forgiving and forgiving?
· What are your dreams for the future?
· Do you know how to say 'no' when necessary?
You must answer these questions with all your sincerity. Remember, you can never fool yourself. The first step to a happy life is knowing yourself. You should be aware of your positive and negative aspects; You need to make an effort to reinforce the positives and turn the negatives into positives. Only in this way can you succeed in being the right spouse before finding the right spouse.
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After getting to know yourself, but before deciding to get married, you should understand whether you and your prospective spouse are suitable for each other in every sense. Remember that your sociological perspective, habits, beliefs, values, political ideas and similarities in family structures will contribute to the share of happiness in your marriage. If you are sure, what you need to do now is to review your expectations about marriage.
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