The institution that plays the biggest role in the child's life during the 0-6 age group, which we define as the pre-school period of the individual, is the family. We can say that in this period, the family is the socialization institution of the child. The parent's communication with the child deeply affects their role in the social environment. The child, who takes his first steps towards becoming an individual, takes the individuals he grows up with as role models. Many socio-psychological studies reveal that there are convicted criminals in the families of children who are prone to crime, as well as their first-degree relatives. Traditions and customs also constitute a major factor for the child's personality development. In general, individuals with low socio-economic and cultural levels have lower developmental stages. It is thought to be completed slowly. However, when we examine the developmental scales, we see that environmental factors do not significantly affect social maturity. (Haluk Yavuzer,1998). Since the child's struggle for survival is more visible in crowded families, it is possible to observe that he/she takes the steps towards becoming an individual more quickly. Families that can create a democratic family environment at home create the architecture of individuals who can make decisions more easily in the future. The children we observe this situation are often enterprising individuals who can produce creative ideas. In families with a harsh attitude, children may develop opposing reactions and become more irritable and aggressive. They want their inner world to be accepted and they reflect their reactions as anger. This creates conflict in the child's inner world because the child cannot fully realize his inner world and himself. If parents support their child's independent world, the child's development will be positively affected and his self-esteem will be strengthened. Even though the parent thinks that he acts best when he meets his child's every wish; He has satisfied his own needs and is stealing from his child's private space. One of the biggest reasons why individuals with low self-confidence grow up is due to parents' failure to protect the boundaries of their child's private space. Although financial needs seem very important during childhood, the child's Emotional needs are also very important. Some families may think and reflect emotional needs in different ways. Today, the biggest example of this is the parent calling his child with dear words (my love, my life) and kissing his child on the lips to show the overdose of emotional intensity. These situations negatively affect children's hormones, emotional personality, attachment styles and many behaviors. If we need to consider in addition to the development of the child; A child who encounters the same behavior from a foreign environment may normalize the same situation because he is not aware of the situation and is in a period when he takes his parent as a model. While parents teach privacy education to their children, they should also be a role model with their behavior. It is observed that many children with behavioral differences in pre-school have poor parenting relationships. The fact that the child takes family members as role models is directly proportional to the strength of the emotional bond between them and the family members. While in some families adults take on every role, some families leave their children free space. It is possible to easily distinguish parents who do whatever their child wants from other children in the preschool period. The child expects the same behavior from his teacher at school that he receives from his family. The fact that the child wants to be in the center at school as well as at home creates adaptation difficulties in the process of getting used to school.
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