Emotion-oriented approach:
“Lack of Love, this is what hurts people; The person you avoid, the person you wrap in cotton with your love, fills your eyes with happiness with a word or a smile that comes out of his mouth... One day, he will soak your eyelashes and tear your heart to pieces... He is such a pain that it literally burns you inside. It's as if they wrapped barbed wire around your heart and force you to breathe..."
Thought-oriented approach:
"Yes... Many people come and go in our lives... Life and I are valuable... In my opinion It's not a good idea to upset myself... Besides, he wasn't a good person anyway... I consider him as if I've never experienced him in my life... Yes, yes..."
Problem-focused approach:
"I know... To the person I love... I have a nature that connects me… But isn't that what love is all about… I actually got used to him… I felt very close to him… He seemed like a very compassionate and loving person… I don't know, maybe he just seemed that way… I always wanted him to be with me… I didn't want to share him with anyone… Me too. There are mistakes... But he also hurt me a lot... I felt worthless...
However, he was very valuable to me and I would make him feel it... He never had a sincere word... He always walked away from me... I couldn't realize it... Or I did notice it. But I couldn't place it,
whatever... It didn't exist before... I was alive... Its presence added color to my life, it was pink... Now I have to erase that color... I painted it too dark... It was too pink, it started to become unreal... There are other colors in life... My eraser is not big. Because I don't just have huge mistakes... I was insecurely attached to the person I thought was right... I can untie the rope... Everything is in my hands... Logic is the most beautiful color.”
When we are exposed to emotional trauma, these thoughts keep spinning in our minds... Love from a loved one above You can see some examples of the approach of someone who receives his expectations with negative feedback and questions that person and his life.
Last word: While running with emotions at the speed of kilometers, the mind progresses with meters.
Yourself, your generation. If you listen to your mind when making decisions for your family, your economy, and your values, your chances of regret will decrease.
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