Life has many ups and downs. It is not possible to see stasis in life. It is possible to see this situation when we examine the elements that make up life. For example; such as the sky, weather, seasons, human life and relationships...
Apart from these examples, the family, which contains many changes, ups and downs and crises, can be given as an example. Family is not a static and passive institution. If the moods of the members of the family can change and their lives revolve between ups and downs, it is also possible to say the same for the family formed by the members coming together.
There are many issues that can cause a crisis in the family. As examples of these;
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The family may have experienced loss. These losses are very sad and irreversible. It may take time to adapt to this situation and close the gap.
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There may be problems related to business and economic problems. The breadwinners of the family may have become unemployed. This situation may cause individuals to go beyond the standards they are used to and have difficulty in this situation.
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Spouses may separate, and if there are children, concerns may arise about the situation of the children. However, the reason that caused the divorce may create a new crisis on its own. For example; like cheating...
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A difficult illness may have occurred in the family and family members may be struggling with this illness. This situation may have worn the family out financially and morally. All members of the family may be seriously sensitive and nervous.
The crises listed above can have a very heavy and tiring mental and physical impact on family members. It may be useful to pay attention to some issues in order to get through these crisis periods more healthily. So, what are these issues?
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The situation the family is in may be very difficult, but despite this, being hopeful and making maximum efforts to solve the problem,
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Paying attention to being together with family members and preventing communication breakdowns,
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Dealing with the tension and anxiety experienced by family members. To give confidence to individuals in order to combat this problem, to try to shoulder the weight of the family equally and to distribute tasks fairly,
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Trying to stay away from unnecessary discussions and focus on the solution,
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To approach the issue realistically and identify the main cause of the problem in order to find solutions rather than being busy looking for scapegoats,
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Such as identifying resources that can ease your burden in the fight against the crisis you are in and taking actions to provide these resources...
The items we have listed above make the crisis period the family is in more effective. can help him get through it in a light and repairable way. Let's not forget that every night has a morning, every perfection has an end. Stay healthy…
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