Relationships can be both the greatest source of happiness and the greatest source of anxiety for us. Why are close relationships so important to us?
Relationships develop through socialization, or the process of people getting to know each other more closely. Opening people up to the other party is a part of this process, and it is thought to develop further as the relationship progresses, depending on the beginning of the relationship.
Research shows that people are happier when they are connected than when they are not. People need other people, belonging is more of a need than a desire, therefore belonging is a part of the human evolutionary equipment.
People are motivated to create social bonds and not to break them. One of the deepest forms of establishing relationships with others is the romantic relationship with the partner.
Many factors such as the romantic beliefs of the partners, their ability to see the relationship as we instead of me, and the relationship scenarios they write about each other affect the development of the relationship. In addition, trust is extremely important; breaking trust can cause serious damage to the relationship.
It is common for things that were once attractive and fascinating in a romantic partner to become the reason for a breakup after a while, or to become repulsive after the breakup.
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As the uniqueness and extremeness of the characteristics of a partner increases, the disappointment experienced also increases. Before starting a relationship, we have various scenarios in our minds about our candidate partner. When we combine our scenario with the characteristics of the other person that appeal to us, we may find ourselves in a relationship.
So, what happens when a person who was very attractive to us in the beginning becomes very repulsive to us?
For example, it is common for someone who is initially very shy to find an extremely extrovert person attractive and then have problems with what they find attractive. If two people can see this difference as a natural aspect of their relationship while developing their relationship, there will be fewer problems.
When relationships start, partners are usually excited and there are developments in romantic relationships or friendships. They are hopeful for death. However, the other side of this positive hopeful feeling is the sadness and intense anger that emerge as the relationship dissolves, overwhelming and upsetting people. Romantic beliefs such as 'Love overcomes all obstacles' may prevent us from seeing the true nature of the relationship.
Relationships can change positively or negatively as people get to know each other closely. The relationship can deepen as long as the partners' expectations from each other are realistic. Otherwise, in relationships where expectations do not comply with the other party and are imposed, the relationship will continue or end in a way that does not make the parties happy.
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