Sexual excitement in human nature is a very complex emotion; just like pride, shame, and guilt. As a result of a person consciously and unconsciously focusing his sexual excitement on a person, this excitement turns into sexual desire. In short, sexual desire is the desire to have sex with a particular person. Sexual excitement and sexual desire are experienced together in non-pathological individuals.
Sexual desire disorders, on the other hand, are a condition characterized by the absence or lack of sexual fantasy and behavior that lead to marked pressure and interpersonal difficulties. In women, there is the absence or markedly low sexual desire, which is manifested by some variables (symptoms):
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Disinterest or little interest in sexual activity,
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Absence or lack of sexual thoughts or phantasies,
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No or little initiation of sexual activity, in response to partner's attempts to initiate refusal to give,
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There is little or no sexual desire for any internal or external sexual symbol (written, verbal, visual).
For the diagnosis of sexual aversion, three of these symptoms must be persistent for at least six months and cause clinically significant distress in the woman. This diagnosis should not be better explained by a non-sexual mental disorder, or be caused by severe relationship disorders (such as partner use of force) or other significant stressors, and should not be attributed to a substance (drug or other health condition). p>REASONS
General Etiological Causes
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Age
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General health issues
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Bad sexual experiences in the past
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Marriage and relationship problems
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Depression
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Religious beliefs
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Obsessive-compulsive disorder
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Problems in the development of sexual identity
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Fear of getting pregnant and contracting a sexually transmitted disease
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Fear of failure
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Insecurity
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Feelings of guilt and guilt
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Frequent sexual intercourse low quality and quality
Organic Causes
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Hormonal disorders
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Birth
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Menopause
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Side effects of drugs
SYMPTOMS
Emotions seen in sexual desire problems include:
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The person's self, partner, opposite sex and anger towards and sexuality
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Shame from fantasies, passion, body, past experiences, childhood sexual abuse, first sexual experience, rape, rejection, parents, eroticism
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Fear of physical pain, getting pregnant, fantasies
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Anxiety about performance, rejection, physical pain, inability to respond appropriately
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Feelings of guilt and guilt
FREQUENCY
Sexual reluctance is the most common in women is sexual dysfunction. According to the researches, it has been determined that 4 out of 10 women experience sexual reluctance at some point in their lives. With this examination, organic areas where sexual desire can be affected should be investigated. Problems that may cause pain during sexual intercourse, chronic diseases, neurological problems, drugs used, etc. is evaluated. Individuals whose problems are not detected are referred to sexual therapies for the evaluation of their psychological state. In therapy, the subconscious psychodynamics that trigger the sexual problem are determined. By giving information about the person's sexuality and psychological state, the wrong ones are corrected.
In sexuality, which has a new perspective, problems are tried to be solved with the experience of the therapist and the motivation of the client. In the next stage, behavioral therapy is applied to get the person to know their body. If problems such as erection and premature ejaculation have occurred with the woman's partner, these are also treated simultaneously. It is possible in 12 sessions.
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