A mother's heart is the child's school!
What comes to your mind when you say mother? What comes to my mind is MOTHER, that warm person who shows compassion, who forgives no matter what you do, who sometimes makes you cry but still never gives up on you and caring for you, who you run into in the arms of when you are afraid, sad, or disappointed.
To define motherhood. It is not difficult to guess that we all agree that there is no need to do long research or read pages of books. So, what is needed to define mother's heart? Could it happen to our experiences? To our experiences from the moment we were conceived until the last day we spend with our mother. Of course, the experiences we will gain thanks to those valuable dynamics that our mother taught us in our infancy and childhood, that will accompany us throughout our lives and that we will use in every field in adolescence and adulthood.
These are those dynamics in the mother's heart In other words, the information we learn in our school is the cornerstone that forms our communication skills in our social life, our bilateral relations, our self-confidence in academic and business environments, and especially the development of our emotional health.
Not only giving birth…
If the mother can establish a secure attachment and correct communication with the child in the first years of the child's life, the baby will develop a sense of trust. In the lives of working mothers or children who have lost their mothers, there are fathers, grandfathers, grandparents, etc. who care for them. They may be worried about this issue, but don't be afraid! It is not only the person who gives birth that can establish a secure bond with the child and raise it in his/her heart. If children can cry when they need, if they can run to you and relax in your arms, if they can be listened to by respecting their identity and feelings, if they spend at least 30 minutes of special time every day and play games, that is, if you can provide the respect, compassion and regulation they need, it is almost impossible not to establish a secure attachment with your child.
RECOMMENDATIONS FOR MOTHERS;
Set times when you will pay one-on-one attention to your child.
Make him/her feel your unconditional love!
Approve his positive behavior Do not reinforce negative behavior by expressing it frequently, getting angry, or warning.
Use the language!
How valuable your child is and Express to him and make him feel his importance in your life.
Never compare him with his older brother-sister or his peers!
Be calm and constructive in the face of your child's efforts and encourage him/her.
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