Do not show your love and attention by touching your children's private parts!
When parents kiss their children on the lips, it may cause them to experience some problems in the future. How?
CHILD'S SUBCONSCIOUS CODES "IT IS GOOD TO BE KISSED ON THE LIPS"
According to children, something is either good or bad. The touches that the child experiences subconsciously positive emotions are good, beautiful and enjoyable; He/she codes touches that experience negative emotions as bad and painful. When you, as a mother and father, kiss the child's lips with love and happiness, the child enjoys it and the code is naturally formed as follows; “It is good to be kissed on the lips.” Behaviors that feel good and positive are more likely to be done.
The child does not find it odd when others kiss him on the lips.
The child does not find it odd when other people kiss him on the lips. Because if mom and dad do it, it's right. Since the lips are one of the regions with the highest number of neurons in the brain, it causes this feeling to be permanent.
SO, HOW DOES THIS PERCEPTION AFFECT THE CHILD'S LIFE?
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After this coding, the child may want to kiss the lips of adults similar to the mother and father, or may respond positively to their request. Unfortunately, this situation makes the child vulnerable to harassment.
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Even though the child is old enough to distinguish strangers, the possibility of saying 'no' decreases because this behavior is paired with a pleasurable feeling.
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Privacy education given to protect the child from malicious people may become ineffective because the mother and father also do it.
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Children who are kissed on the lips become sexually premature. can be stimulated. Negative sexual behaviors such as masturbating in public and abusing their peers are observed in children who are stimulated early.
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Children who are kissed on the lips in the family code this as a show of affection. They tend to kiss or allow kissing on the lips of their beloved friends in the nursery.
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Father's daughter; A mother kissing her son on the lips may have a negative impact on the child's sexuality in his or her future marriage life.
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Your father 's son; A mother kissing her daughter on the lips may cause the child to be attracted to the same gender in the future, which may cause problems in sexual orientation.
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Children who are sexually aroused early may be exposed to early and unhealthy sexual relations during adolescence.
Do not show your love and care by touching your children's private parts.
DO NOT CALL YOUR CHILDREN MY LOVE!
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