The family institution is an important social unit in all societies. Therefore, the family is considered the foundation of society. In other words, family; 'It is a Miniature of the World.' To understand the world and societies, it is enough to examine families. Because family is people's first school. Values such as love, respect, tradition and custom are first acquired in the family and passed on to future generations. Children growing up in a happy, peaceful and healthy family environment establish healthier relationships with the outside world.
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So, do you know the steps towards becoming a happier family?
The most important quality of the family institution is that it is a world of love-oriented relationships. In this respect, family is a school that prepares individuals for social life with love and compassion. It is vital for the society that individuals grow up well under the roof of the family and in a peaceful environment. Because the peace and happiness of the family means the peace and happiness of the society. The behavior of family members and the care they give to the family are very important for the family structure to continue in a healthy way.
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A healthy family begins with a healthy husband-wife relationship.
'Children are the mirror of their parents.' Children learn socialization, communication methods and social values from their families. Children learn methods of coping with stress, conflict resolution skills, and how to react to negativities such as blocking behavior, mostly based on their parents' reactions. For this reason, possible problems between spouses and children must be resolved in the presence of the child. Because children learn their communication and conflict resolution skills by observing their parents. For this reason, healthy families turn conflicts into opportunities. They can discuss problems openly.
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Correct communication means a happy family.
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Healthy and happy family members love each other. They are their best friends and they can talk about anything; This includes disappointments, fears, joys, joys, dreams. They approach each other openly and openly about their feelings and thoughts; They express these feelings without fear or hesitation. Family members support and listen to each other Members are there for each other without bullying or judging. A healthy family has open communication. They act rationally when faced with any problem or problem. Good communication should be the first step you take to become a happy family.
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Family members make decisions together.
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In healthy families, authority is not one person. There is no superiority between genders. Each family member has the right to choose individually. When decisions about the future of the family are to be made, they are not discussed secretly in the corners of the rooms, in low voices, but when the family is all together, in an environment where everyone can express their opinions, and the opinions of family members are also given importance. Family members are supportive of each other. An individual who can share his thoughts freely and be accepted and approved; He is a happy and self-confident individual. When family members make decisions jointly, they bond and trust each other. Thus, the existence of a happy and healthy family is felt.
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Do not forget the importance of spending time together.
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Laughing together. strengthens family ties. Eating together at least one meal a day whenever possible, preparing and clearing the table together is one of the best activities that can be done as a family. Chatting and laughing together during meals is very important in terms of strengthening your family communication during the busy pace of your day. At this point, it is much more important to spend quality time rather than spending too much time. Family members both love and respect each other; They immediately make you realize the liveliness and sincerity. If family members have the ability to chat, there will be no secret situations between family members. Chatting strengthens the bond between family members. Another advantage of chatting is that in order to minimize family conflicts during adolescence, family members' needs to be able to chat and be accepted must be met within the family. Be With Him.
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Every family has good times as well as stressful and difficult times. Develop outside the family Unfortunate factors also affect the family. Sometimes these effects can prevent healthy and correct communication within the family. In these negative situations, family members supporting each other, talking about problems and not making individual accusations by offering solution suggestions together reduces the feeling of stress of family members; It will strengthen family ties by meeting the need for family members to be accepted, that is, to feel valued. Being as understanding as possible during negative stressful periods and supporting each other among family members will help get through difficult times in a healthy and happy family environment. Family members will overcome the challenge stronger socially and emotionally, knowing that they will be supported when they need it and will not be criticized or judged. It is very important for the future social and emotional development of the child that positive emotions such as cooperation and solidarity within the family and family ties can overcome all difficulties.
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As a result; The definitive solution to possible problems occurring in society depends on the quality of education within the family and the family's ability to carry out their work in a healthy way. That's why changing the family will be enough to change the world. In short, the family institution plays a key role in the process of building a healthy society of the future and social development. Relationships based on love and loyalty, which are the most important qualities of the family institution, create a solid world. Family members feel valuable or worthless with the messages they receive from each other. Families affect people's feelings of trust and insecurity, their psychosocial and sociocultural positions, their functionality and mental state. Therefore, a healthy family will create a healthy society.
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