One learns the exact meaning of some words sometimes by experiencing them, sometimes by feeling them, and sometimes by seeing them. For example, longing, separation, distance... We all experienced a longing, a separation, a distance in our lives. Let's consider longing first. Longing is the feeling of being away from something and the desire to reach it. The desire to be there, next to you, at that moment. Separation? Could there be a dialectic of reunion? In fact, these are the four important legs that hold a table up. Happiness is a lace tablecloth.
When one is far away and experiencing separation, one meets longing. He tastes the feeling of longing. As Orhan Veli said, “I didn't know that songs were so beautiful and words were inadequate. Before getting into this trouble" Man did not know separation, longing and reunion so much before he went far!
Far! Is there really such a thing as distance? As long as we are in the same city, the same country, the same continent or even the same planet, what do you call far? Is there a limit? Aren't we all gathered under one sky? So what is far, something that can never be reached, that can never be reached? Can kilometers, mountains, seas separate us from our loved ones and friends? “If we want to be with someone we love, aren't we there already? ” says Richard Bach. Of course, there is no such place as far away. Especially today, especially in this Millennium age. While we have mobile phones, computers, tablets, Facebook, WhatsApp, Viber, etc., we destroy mountains, seas, kilometers... Of course, what matters here is the distance of the heart. If you feel it from your heart, there is no distance. Wouldn't an e-mail, a small good morning message or a phone call from far away make us feel sad?
This is life. Always on the move. As Heraclitus said, "Everything flows!" If we cannot enter the same river once again, then longing, separation and distance will end with the movement of the universe. A separation, a distance... And you, me and we will meet. As in my table example, four different legs on four sides, four different emotions: Separation, distance, longing and reunion.
“People should put excuses aside, because distance is an obstacle to touching, not to loving,” says Leo Buscaglia. How beautiful. he says. Far away makes you love. Far away makes you miss. Far away makes you connect. The further one moves away, the more one misses. The further one moves away from earth and water. Doesn't he burst with longing? A person loves as he gets further away. There is no such thing as taking refuge in the saying that what is out of sight is also far from the heart. The heart stubbornly embraces those who are far away at night. Isn't distance the reason for legendary loves? Distance does not destroy love, it increases it. Sometimes you hold your phones at the same time, sometimes you send messages to your loved one. You are surprised by these special moments and think, "This is the power of thought." The only explanation for this is; You love, you are loved. Even if your loved ones are miles away from you, you are not alone. If you have friends and loved ones that you are sure are thinking of you, you are never powerless when you are far away. Once you know how to touch the heart, whether you are ten steps away or across the sea. Love is not proportional to distance, it is proportional to how much sincerity it carries. Even if you are in different cities, different countries, and live different lives, sometimes you look for solutions to troubles and celebrate joys in different cities... You know how he feels. A longing song plays on the radio, you listen to your friend, not the song. We talk about the meetings that started with "I wish you could come too" and regret it a little after hours. Suddenly you realize it's there. It's always by your side anyway. You can research the cultural activities of his city on his websites. You make programs together, even though you know it won't come true, you say dreaming is not about money, brother, and smile on the phone...
Sometimes, your longing covers your body so much that you want to touch him and look at his face to your heart's content. You want to meet him suddenly, on the first plane or the first bus. This is what friendship is like, far away. You learn to feel with his heart, you go back to memories, you live with repetitions despite the stubbornness of different cities... Because you know best that friendship knows no distance. Don't let the goodbyes bore you. For a new meeting, a Goodbye is necessary to say Hello. GOODBYE!…
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