The child who manages to eat without anyone's help not only brings happiness to his family with this behavior, but also begins to enjoy the feeling of success. The existence of this fresh self-confidence is sometimes endangered, unfortunately, because the family realizes that the child uses his left hand while eating, and
This situation remains as an awareness of the magnitude of "my child will most likely be left-handed." does not allow
The next process will continue as the family puts pressure on the child to use his right hand.
While the child is feeding himself very well using his left hand; Trying to use his/her right hand results in consequences such as spilling food, not being full, feeling of failure, and boredom.
Not to mention the scolding he received from his family.
We have always spent our energy and time in life to strengthen our weaknesses, and we continue to do so to a great extent
. While we were taking private lessons for our weak subjects, we did not think of investing in ourselves for the subject we were good at.
Even if we thought of it, we couldn't tell our family about it. Yes
Yes; A student who is weak in mathematics or a child who is not the favorite of the class in science class
What would it be like to do sports, play a musical instrument or write poetry? “First, be the best in your class,
Then, if you have time, you can play your ball or your saz.”
School life went by, but the order did not change. The situation in business life was also very familiar to us.
We waited a long time for our good work to be noticed, we wanted to be at least a little happy in our already boring business life.
Our problem wasn't to please the manager, we shouldn't stand out too much anyway. ,
We were not liked by our colleagues. Maybe the child within us was still looking for the 'well done!' that we couldn't hear when we were children.
It didn't happen again. When our job performance was evaluated, we were criticized for the competencies for which we received low scores.
We were not given enough appreciation for the competencies we were really good at.
In short, we always missed our strengths while trying to improve our weaknesses.
>After what we wrote, “Well, let's examine our weaknesses. "Aren't we going to develop it?" The question may have crossed your mind
. Of course, we will improve our weaknesses, but not by spending all our energy. It is enough for our weaknesses
to reach a level that can handle us in the first place. This should be done without aiming to be the best in the class in mathematics, the genius child of the school in science
, or a super white-collar worker in the workplace.
With the self-confidence and sense of success we will gain from our strengths, we should do this in the subjects we are weak in.
Over time, it will be possible for us to see that we are better. Maybe this is the issue we've been missing for years
. When we have the thought 'I can do it, I can succeed' about any subject, it will be easy for us to transfer this to other areas on our agenda. We need to encourage our children and ourselves by saying, "Look, you could do this, so
If you make a little effort, you can do this too."
Everyone should be equally successful in everything, everyone should do everything in the same way.
Won't it become a situation that makes us all ordinary? We must explore our features and competencies that make us different from other people. We must ask ourselves, "What are the subjects that I am better at than others?" While focusing only on our weaknesses makes us an average individual, the key to success is to strengthen our strengths even further. If football players who were famous for their successful kicks with their left foot
had spent their time
to strengthen their right foot, we would probably not even know their names.
They are famous for their success in a certain field. Even though we come across many similar examples when we look at the lives of people, it is not very common to accept this situation in our own lives.
Accepting the fact that people cannot be successful in every field will bring success and happiness
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I think. We do not have to like dealing with every subject, nor do we have to be successful in every subject.
While bringing the subjects that we need to do and that are useful for us to know in our survival to a certain level, we can also improve ourselves in the areas that we are strong and enjoy doing.
to raise Isn't it worth a try?
Expert. Psk. Şahika Akkuş Sert
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