If you are constantly trying to do something for the other party in a relationship, you are always giving, your boundaries are violated, your needs are not met, you are ignored, you are not respected, you struggle with feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy, you experience frequent emotional fluctuations, you are always guilty when the other party is at fault, you are demanding. If you are characterized as a self-confident person and your self-confidence is constantly damaged, these symptoms indicate that you are in a toxic relationship. Not being able to accept the failure of the course and taking this failure on yourself because of your own dynamics or your partner's manipulative influence on you are some of the reasons why this toxic relationship continues…
So What Affects Our Partner Choice?< br />
From an instinctive point of view, a protective, nurturing, social, strong, sociable, productive
partner is the reason for preference, and this affects our choice more than we think.
From a developmental point of view, We tend to choose partners who carry our past wounds or who remind us of our past wounds, who re-experience them.
We choose the one who bears our wounds in the context of similar experience, common point. The one that reminds us of our wound and makes us experience it again, as I mentioned before when I was talking about the compulsion to repeat, we choose to play the same scene again and this time to be successful and to repair the wound. Dominant, angry, enterprising roles are in the foreground and attractive to us in cinemas, TV series, advertisements, and social media. In other words, the popular culture movement that these have created is based on these reasons, while at the same time pumping the outputs of these reasons to the society. .
In conclusion, I would like to say that the elections depend on certain dynamics, yes, but the nature of the election is all. can change the output, which is determined by your awareness.
A partner who seems strong and protective; self-sacrificing, loving, self-sacrificing, encouraging, reliable, respectful can also be a psychopathic sociopath...
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