Fidelity is one of the basic pillars of marriage. This feeling begins with the excitement of that first look, "I can never look at anyone like this again," he says, and when his hand touches yours, the one in love says, "No other hand will touch my hand like yours." He does not even think that one day this love will end and his lover will move to another eye, another hand, another heart.
However, today the dimensions of communication have changed so much that Blogspot, Facebook, Flixster, Fourmspring, Mypace. , Path, Siberalem, Twitter, Windows Live, etc. Face-to-face communication has been invaded by social networks.
Accessing both information and communication so easily, even being able to travel around the world with a pseudonym or a fictitious identity without being yourself, being a guest in the house of people you do not know at any time you want, It seemed easy and exciting to people. This unlimited and fast communication caused everything to be given up easily and to be acquired without effort. The possessions became increasingly worthless, because everything was more beautiful, more luxurious, and better at their fingertips.
Marriages, of course, also had their share of these developments, because couples no longer looked at each other in the same house, did not chat about the day, and went to their own corners. They started to withdraw and live in their own world.
The number of clients who want to divorce due to the complaint of virtual cheating is increasing. They don't know what to do because if they end this relationship, they are not sure that they will not experience something similar in their next relationship.
When we come home in the evening, we almost do not look at each other's faces, my wife never leaves her phone, she is either surfing Facebook, playing games or texting all the time. . He even goes to the toilet with his phone in his hand. Whenever I'm bored, should we go to friends? If I say "oh!! "Who will engage in a lot of unnecessary conversation now?" he says. That's fine, but he spends unnecessary hours chatting on his computer or phone. Even with the kids he only plays computer games. They neither ride a bike, go out, or go to the movies.
We went out to dinner as a family three times in the last six months, and everyone had either a mobile phone or a tablet computer. Instead of playing on the restaurant's playground, the children were playing on tablets at the table. I looked around and saw that eighty percent of the other families He was like us. I thought it would be best not to complain.
One day I couldn't resist, I got suspicious for the first time, I said there was something in this and looked at the messaging history of his mobile phone. Oh my god, there were hundreds of love messages, it turned out that he had been corresponding with another woman for months. I thought I was playing a game, my world collapsed, how could I be so stupid.
Finally, my wife confessed, they met on Facebook, it started like a game at first, she says, "it's just curiosity." Then photos, music sharing, then video sharing... My wife says this is not a real cheating, she says it's just virtual, she says I didn't touch her hand. I want a divorce, but I can't handle defeat and being preferred over another woman. Moreover, it does not matter whether they are men or women, my friends also complain about their spouses.
Note: Client stories have been changed in accordance with ethical principles.
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