No matter what period of life it occurs, nail biting should be considered as an adaptation and behavioral disorder, and its underlying causes should be identified and eliminated. Nail biting, which is common in children, can occur with many conditions. It is more common in girls than boys and may increase during adolescence. In fact, we can say that one in every two adolescents bites their nails.
This behavior, which is more common in children of parents who use physical punishment, develops as a method of coping with stress. A child who is pressured and criticized by his parents can cope with stress by biting his nails. Nail biting is one of the most common behaviors in children who have been sexually abused. It is important for families to be sensitive and cautious about this issue.
When we look at the general reasons for the nail-biting habit, we look at feelings of sadness, distress and grief, feelings of anxiety and tension, feelings of aggression and anger, fear, insecurity and feelings of worthlessness. , communication problems within the family, and an authoritarian and oppressive attitude within the family. If we look at the dangers of nail-biting habits, people who bite their nails for a long time have a higher risk of developing infections, and diseases of the mouth and digestive system are common.
Nail-biting behaviors of children aged 3-4 years can be ignored by parents, because they generally attract the attention of their families. Children who want to acquire this habit. However, if this behavior continues, the underlying causes should be investigated urgently. Considering that attitudes such as scolding, criticizing, shouting and putting pressure do not produce positive results, parents need to change their attitudes.
To offer some suggestions to families about nail biting, first of all, drawing the child's attention to another direction will help reduce nail biting behavior. We can say that it is an effective method. If these habits are ignored until children are 3-4 years old, it may be easier for them to give up. It is necessary to show love and compassion to children, children who do not receive enough attention It can be expressed as eating money. We need to determine when children bite their nails. To eliminate this habit, it may be necessary to produce different alternatives. There should be activities to keep children busy. It is also important and necessary to reinforce the child's self-confidence. First of all, we must convince them that they can overcome this habit. Harmless, bitter liquids can also be applied to the child's nails so that he or she can give it up, depending on his or her age and knowledge. The child should also be kept away from situations that will cause anxiety and fear.
We should be patient with children on this issue and give them time to get rid of this habit.
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