One day, while Napoleon was running away from enemy soldiers, he entered a grocery store. He immediately ordered the grocer to hide him. He hid Napoleon in a suitable place in the grocery store and fended off the enemy soldiers who came a little later, saying, "someone just ran and ran that way." After a while, Napoleon's guards arrived. The grocer asked Napoleon, whom he would never meet again in his life: "Sir, I'm sorry, but I was wondering, how does it feel to be so close to death?" Napoleon suddenly became angry. "Who are you to talk to me like this?" he shouted. He immediately ordered his soldiers to shoot the man. The soldiers blindfolded the grocer and lined up in front of him. The bullets have been loaded into the barrels, now the "fire" order will be given. The grocery store thought, "Oh, what did you do?" While he was thinking, "You will die now," a pair of hands reached from behind and removed the blindfold from his eyes. There was Napoleon in front of him. Napoleon replied in one sentence: "This is what it feels like!" “
As explained in the story, experience-based learning can sometimes have very heavy costs.
Some people can plan their behavior or action by using previous experiences as a guide, by listening to what is told, by researching.
Although the form of learning through experience is the most costly form of learning, it can also be considered as a way in which a person can mature himself in the best way and understand himself best internally.
There is a group of people who pay the price as a result of experience-based learning, see their mistakes and mistakes, learns from them. Even if this learning process is negative, the most positive thing that a person learns and adds to himself is "growing up".
I have learned many things in my life based on the best experience. This wasn't a choice for me. As a result of such an experience, I realized that I had unintentionally shaped an important decision I would make in my life with this learning method.
I had losses, I was sad, I was offended, maybe I was offended, but I UNDERSTOOD - I REALIZED...
This It taught me to see the cost of awareness and experience-based learning, to use more logic filters when making decisions, and to see and distinguish my emotions more transparently.
He lived in this context. When you look more closely at a negative event, it may be conveying a message to you. Learn, mature, see the cons and turn them into positives... Such a situation is perhaps a natural therapy that life gives for you...
Experiences full of awareness...
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