We cannot forget some of the important words we have heard from our mothers, fathers, teachers, elders, or read in books throughout our lives.
When the time and place comes, we can say these important words, "that's what my father said", "let your ears ring." We express it as "my teacher said this". If the person we are talking about has passed away, after saying the most beautiful words of praise to make his soul happy, we tell that beautiful one-sentence "aphorism" that remains in our minds and make our comment about him.
Such aphorisms are our people. Since it is given great importance by many people, it is not easily erased from memory.
More or less, every person has some sayings in their memory. We hope that the meaningful words we have listed below for newly married young people will have a similar place in your life.
Things to do before marriage
*1
strong> - Get married because you want to, not because you have to.*2 - Don't get married before gaining material and spiritual power.
*3 - Before getting married, read books about marriage and consult married people.
*4 - Know that those looking for the perfect spouse cannot have a healthy marriage.
*5 - Get the approval of your parents to understand that the person you decide to marry is the right decision.
*6 - The equality in marriage is only possible. not in physical appearance; Look for other social, cultural, spiritual and economic behaviors as well.
*7 - Avoid marrying your close relative.
*8 - Do not get married under the influence of your family and environment.
*9 - If you want to have a healthy marriage, marry someone who is equal to you.
*10 - Decide on marriage after determining the common points in choosing a spouse.
*11 - Know that marriage can be perfect, but not the most perfect.
*12 - Marry a spouse you like, not your family.
*13 - Don't make marriage a fait accompli, but don't leave it for a long time either.
*14 - Fi Do not get married until you reach the age of physical and spiritual maturity.
*15 - Take down your masks when making your decision about marriage.
*16 - Your marriage is yours. Remember the three \"S\". Love, respect and loyalty...
*17- Think carefully about the saying "Marriage has no guarantee. If you want a guarantee, buy a washing machine."
*18 - When you decide to get married, know that you will also be marrying your spouse's family.
*19 - Look for the person you will marry near, not far away.
*20 - Know that a healthy marriage cannot be achieved through newspaper advertisements or internet.
Is reason or emotions important in marriage?
*When you get married, use your mind, but also listen to your heart from time to time.
*Choose your spouse with your mind, not with your eyes.
*When choosing your spouse, use your mind before your feelings. Decide.
First behaviors are important
*Act knowing that the first date is a "sorting" process, not establishing rapport.
*Make your first dates short.
*Make your first dates short.
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*Behave your natural behavior on the first date.
*On your first date, focus on private and humorous topics, instead of serious and political topics.
*Your first outfit, your first. Remember that your attitude is very important.
*Do not continue a relationship with someone whose heart does not warm you at first sight.
Love or desire?
*Distinguish between infatuation and love.
*Do not confuse desire with love.
*If you want your spouse to love you, always be the giver.
*Know that the most important sign of respect and love is "listening"
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*If you want to be loved, love first.
Cultural integrity
*Know that marriage cannot be made with a person who does not have religious integrity.
*When choosing a spouse, \" Do not underestimate "cultural equivalence".
*If the difference in belief is serious, do not try in vain.
Personality and identity
*The first feature you will look for in the person you will marry is "personality and responsibility." " should be.
*Know that you will not be able to marry someone who is spiritually immature and whose personality is not developed.
*He is persistent in his ideas and Do not marry a stubborn person.
*Remember that someone who spends his money thoughtlessly will also be thoughtless in other matters.
*Try to get to know your spouse candidate not by the words he says, but by his attitudes and actions.
*Be yourself when talking to your spouse candidate.
*To find the right spouse, first be honest.
Measured compliments
*If someone is not respectful to his parents, he will also be honest with you. Remember that he will not be respectful.
*Be careful of families who make exaggerated praises about their children when choosing a spouse.
*Have no doubt that the person who behaves arbitrarily as he wishes in his parents' house will do the same to you.
*Know that unwarranted and exaggerated praise will reduce the value of real praise.
*Instead of excessive compliments, choose the person who acts naturally.
Before you decide...
*Be sure to consult others before you decide about the spouse you like.
* Consult not your single friends, but your friends who have been happily married for many years.
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