The first place where children learn to be themselves is their families. Families are the first places where they form their own personalities, begin to learn about the world, and define other people around them. Every family has its own living order, communication style and routines. Family means relationship, and as in every relationship, many emotions and moments, good, bad, beautiful, ugly, peaceful, angry, loving, sad, anxious, safe, are shared in this relationship. It is easy and enjoyable to manage good emotions and peaceful memories. What matters is how we manage our angry, anxious, restless and insecure moments. You have heard the following sentences from many people that reflect their beliefs: The important thing is to be a 'bad day friend', it is important in good times, but being with me in bad times is much more valuable, it has a very special place in my heart because it is with me in bad times, you are there when no one else is. You were there etc…
There are negative moments as well as positive moments in the family. Life is intertwined with good and bad. Our positive memories strengthen and nourish our relationships. Do you know that managing your negative moments effectively strengthens family relationships?
The most real feeling that people need from birth to death is the need to be loved perfectly. They are accepted unconditionally. Why shouldn't bad experiences within the family be constructive instead of destructive? Negative experiences also; Each family member should accept each other unconditionally, calm each other down and share their feelings. They should be side by side to understand each other, not to find a solution. What is more valuable than ending conflicts is the family's desire to understand each other. With every sharing made not for a solution but to understand each other, you contribute to the strengthening of your family relationships. You can observe that when family members understand each other and accept their feelings, conflicts decrease and resolution is much easier. Each family's unique routines also contribute to the strengthening of family relationships.
Meal times eaten with all family members: Tables are always unifying. It creates times when family members are together and opportunities for conversation.
Play times with family members: Game; It allows family members to establish close relationships with each other. It allows discovering their sensitive points and fun sides.
Special family activity day reserved for a certain day of the week: It is important for family members to allocate special time periods to spend with the family in order to increase unity and solidarity outside the home. Sundays are days of activities with the family, such as movies, picnics, going to the theatre.
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