Women; Men's 'What do women want? We often hear people complaining, "I don't understand." It is true that women seem to be extremely complex, but underneath that complex cover, they are extremely naive, discreet, more emotion-oriented than men, and waiting to be understood.
Contrary to what men think, women express themselves, in fact, what they want most is understandable. to be. They also express themselves with their whole bodies, but the strange thing is that men like clarity and want the woman to convey and express all her wishes and expectations. The woman says, "I convey it not with my language, but with my look, my stance, my touch." So the important point is to be understandable and understandable. Perhaps the important point to know is; It is that we never have the right to demand from the other party something that we have not expressed clearly and clearly.
But in our society, this is not possible. From their childhood, boys and girls are brought up observing the roles assigned to men and women in society. The most important models are our closest mothers and fathers. The father model we generally observe and frequently encounter is the father who meets the needs of the house (financial), is indifferent, has difficulty in reading the emotional needs of the mother and children, and does not make much effort to do so. However, since the father was brought up this way, he often behaves as if this was the way it should be and as if there was no other way or possibility of behavior. I don't want to be unfair, although the father, the man, cannot read emotional clues, he is solution-oriented. He focuses on the problem and always produces a solution. Women, on the other hand, often do not raise their voices too much, learn to experience their emotions deep down, and become caregiving oriented in traditional couples.
Although today the situation has changed somewhat with the entry of women into business life and the increase in their education level, it is already in our schemas. The parental models I mentioned have taken place somewhere. Despite claims to the contrary, women are not very complex beings. In fact, I don't think that sometimes we complicate some situations. Men are more outspoken than women and express their wishes clearly and thoughtfully. They express it in a simple way. Women, on the other hand, expect a little kindness and a few heart-warming words. Today, young men have somewhat understood this situation, but this time they have failed to respect women's feelings in order to achieve their wishes. Then the women were saying that he loved them very much, but he was saying that he couldn't live without you, but he was saying that you are very beautiful, why did he go to someone else in such a short time? How quickly did his love end? They deal with questions like: However, the man fulfilled the woman's wishes in line with her wishes, continued this until he got bored or found something better, as I mentioned above, and maybe even got tired of the woman not expressing her feelings and her "you understand" attitude, and then the impatient man walked away.
I'm not talking about men, nor about women, in fact, only about the roles assigned to us and the way we, those with a little awareness, manage the relationship. I think this confusion between men and women, which has been endless since existence, will not end in a lifetime. Men, what I can tell you is something that maybe some of you have never done before; Try to look through women's eyes, maybe you can understand women a little, and please don't compare them to your friends' lovers, wives, or even your mother, or even their own mothers. A woman hates to be compared, in fact no human being likes to be compared.
And leave aside the questions of why women are like this, why they always find me, and question your past relationships and most importantly your own choices, you will definitely find something that will make you happier. You will find men. However, if both men and women think that your choices are wrong but you repeat the same wrong choices, get support from an expert closest to you.
Dear women and men; I hope you stay happy for a lifetime with a partner with whom you can be a very good friend and then love the best and get bored as little as possible (because it is impossible not to get bored at all).
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